Except when you're 18/19, essentially famous (we can debate that but I think it's true) and in a new area you're at added risk. Whether it's
grape or assault, or even just getting caught on a fan's social media doing/saying something stupid while hammered, she's at a risk to herself. I agree, she does take some of the responsibility if she wants to go out and get
ducked up - she's a legal adult after all, but if I'm honest I think true friends won't just shove you in an Uber and hope for the best. Obviously I'm not much of a clubber (I have next to no interest honestly haha!) but I think I'd rather have a good night cut short than having my friend passed out in a hallway and have anything happen to her. You can continue getting drunk at home if your roommate wants to go home and still have fun - providing of course she wasn't actually out of it with alcohol already.
That's just me though

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