Fathering Autism #9 Eat and Travel as much as we wanna, we're spreading awareness and Corona

[Stripe69]

OMG!
I'm so happy someone else feels this way about his immaturity. I have thought this for a long time---no high school senior wants to be tagging along everywhere with his parents. And sometimes just things he says or does is embarrassingly childish. Don't get me wrong I think it's not really his fault---but it is what it is. I have my doubts about him making it in college but I hope he can finally come into his own.

And also, Appalachian State is an okay school, but not like an elite school as they would like us to think.

I had left home and was married when I was 18. Not recommending he get married of course, just stand on his own two feet. They are so controlling.

 

[GrammaL]

Sadly,any work that anyone does w Abbie is only for the omen FS it’s done. The parents don’t seem to follow up( week for a shot on the vlog they for a moment or two). So no matter what anyone does,unless it’s follow through doesn’t matter in the long run.

 

[Kermy]

[QUOTE
Does he wear that bloody cap in bed

During adult time

 

[GrammaL]

Reading some posts here,I am starting to feel like a horrible mom! All of my kids had jobs at 16. And yes,they were excellent students as well.They knew that when it came to the basics,those would be covered by us,but extras they wanted they would buy for themselves. They( again,bad mom) were also required to bank at the least1/3 of their paychecks.
I get that today jobs are harder to come by for teens. Seems no one wants to hire them,or the rules are so strict w the hours they can work.

I get different strokes for different folks.

 

[EyeSpy71]

[QUOTE
Does he wear that bloody cap in bed

And the sunglasses

 

[GrammaL]

I had left home and was married when I was 18. Not recommending he get married of course, just stand on his own two feet. They are so controlling.

Yeah..I was graduated and out on my own at 17. I married young as well,had kids young. No,don’t think it’s the right( not wrong) way to go,not w so many opportunities now.
Sorry,but I still don’t think they are going to let go of Isiah when he goes off to college. There are parents like that.And I honestly don’t think Isiah would stand up to them. They have sunk it in his head so deep the responsibility he has for his sister, and that won’t go away.( and that’s how they will get him).

 

[Stripe69]

During adult time

Oh not the adult time again. I have only just got the pictures out of my mind from last time. I just can’t, I wonder if he uses that podcast voice when he is doing the business

 

[Take no prisoners]

Ok folks, I hope I dont get just completely molly whopped for this one but, I have to ask......what is the difference between what Abigail truly has and just being mentally ********? (I'll be honest with you, that's what it looks like to me.) Is mental retardation just an outdated term or what?

In 2010 Obama signed a bill replacing metal retardation with intellectual disabilities. Growing up in the 80s, we used the word ******** for everything. But now that word, the r word, is offensive to alot of people like others I will not reference but I trust you know what I mean. (Even in reviewing my post tattle.life replaced the r word with *'s)

 

[ICAAC]

I thought big names weren’t sponsoring them, because a lot of the ‘fans’ were ‘brought’ and that with having sooo many aliases they would just play the vids on repeat to up the numbers? Like who has heard of wegone before A got himself a nomination, and then all of a sudden, he wins it, and not more deserving people?

I haven't gone that far down with them yet and didn't know that was a thing with them! The guy I showed who knows someone with that D&D thing, it was more of an 'off the table' type thing because nothing was set in place. The one thing that was mentioned though was the sponsors they do have that they try to promote, apparently the D&D people said the way they shout people out is.....eh, bad and for that reason alone they would never.

I didn't know it was Dunkin at the time and I thought Isiah was a D&D player and trying to get some swag and tit from them lol The people I did show knew nothing at all about them but didn't like the way they advertised their sponsors and they didn't think their game would suit the Vlog anyway.

 

[GrammaL]

“He wears his sunglasses at night,at night..am sure it’s keeps him from getting a fright”
“ his cap is embedded on his head,so with sunglasses he wears it to bed”
“ she wears her tiara to bed,to bed”
“ he screams Princess,sweet girl,the son down In his room now wants to hurl”

Sorry...

 

[Whatsupwiththat]

Well I grew up in the 70’s and you’re right what it used to be called. Not to be mean but changing the term doesn’t change the condition it just makes it more politically correct nowadays. I agree though her condition appears to be more of that than autism. Autism itself wasn't a thing when I grew up. Kids at my school who were like that were in special Ed class. Again not trying to be insensitive to any groups.

 

[10fingers10toes]

Reading some posts here,I am starting to feel like a horrible mom! All of my kids had jobs at 16. And yes,they were excellent students as well.They knew that when it came to the basics,those would be covered by us,but extras they wanted they would buy for themselves. They( again,bad mom) were also required to bank at the least1/3 of their paychecks.
I get that today jobs are harder to come by for teens. Seems no one wants to hire them,or the rules are so strict w the hours they can work.

I get different strokes for different folks.

Nah, your not a horrible mom , atleast how I see it. Your kids will really appreciate your allowing them to learn independence and self sufficiency

As for Isaiah, he has a lot of demands on his shoulders. Not only is he in an IB program in school where he has a lot of homework and advanced classes, he is also a caregiver for Abbie. Might as well admit it, it's why he has to tag along with his parents everywhere, why he has to hangout at home probably more than an average teen and of course he has a supporting role in the A$a $how on YouTube. If he had a job, they couldn't put as many demands on him at home, Asa can't have that, he's gotta be in control. Isaiah's gotta be constantly alert and ready to sprint to get Abbie in case she runs off because Lawd knows Humpty and Dumpty can't catch her.
Look, when they go to carnivals, teens are everywhere with their friends hanging out while he has to walk around holding hands with his sister.

So really, he does have a job, it just SUCKS and he probably doesn't get his own wages for it

He has a good soul, one day he will be the king of his own castle and call the shots in his life. Hang in there Isaiah

 

[Sharkhunter]

Oh not the adult time again. I have only just got the pictures out of my mind from last time. I just can’t, I wonder if he uses that podcast voice when he is doing the business

 

[GrammaL]

Nah, your not a horrible mom , atleast how I see it. Your kids will really appreciate your allowing them to learn independence and self sufficiency

As for Isaiah, he has a lot of demands on his shoulders. Not only is he in an IB program in school where he has a lot of homework and advanced classes, he is also a caregiver for Abbie. Might as well admit it, it's why he has to tag along with his parents everywhere, why he has to hangout at home probably more than an average teen and of course he has a supporting role in the A$a $how on YouTube. If he had a job, they couldn't put as many demands on him at home, Asa can't have that, he's gotta be in control. Isaiah's gotta be constantly alert and ready to sprint to get Abbie in case she runs off because Lawd knows Humpty and Dumpty can't catch her.
Look, when they go to carnivals, teens are everywhere with their friends hanging out while he has to walk around holding hands with his sister.

So really, he does have a job, it just SUCKS and he probably doesn't get his own wages for it

He has a good soul, one day he will be the king of his own castle and call the shots in his life. Hang in there Isaiah

They have..all went on to do very very well. Thanks...(kids are now 40,38,34,29). Thye sort of “hated”me a bit,but when 3 out of the 4 bought their own homes by 25,they finally understood...

 

[ICAAC]

So really, he does have a job, it just SUCKS and he probably doesn't get his own wages for it

Right??? Let's get that fixed too while we're here! We're Fathering them more than they are!

You saw how surprised Isiah was when ASSa actually gave him $5 for running through the water and he was like 'Seriously?' and then 5 seconds later ASSa asked for double or nothing and Isiah said he didn't bet his money. The look of SHOCK that his Father actually gave him money....Yeah, you can tell that almost never happens.

 

[Kermy]

All assa needs is a 70's porn mustache...sorry I will share the brain bleach

 

[cucumber]

Laws can claim adulthood but that does not mean one is an adult. I have seen FEW 18 year old males that could take care of themselves. He doesn't have a HS diploma, so yeah he could work for minimum wage somewhere. But you certainly could not live off of that. He will find his way in time, he just will...haven't we all?

I just cannot wait for him to go away to college. I just think it will be so good for him in so many ways.

 

[RocketQueen]

So I don't know how many of you have TikTok, but (regarding the milkshake thing) the way it works is basically people reuse the same audio file and basically copy each other's videos. There are some exceptions where people use their own sound or are the first to use a particular sound file, and then perhaps they get copied by other people. And then there are some good people who do something really interesting or creative. But the vast majority of content on TikTok is like....really extremely low effort bullshit where people copy other stuff, like 30-second lip sync videos. It is so, so sad--but I do use the app because like I said, for every 99 people who produce garbage there is a person who creates something truly unique and valuable.

Anyway, so the point is that there are about a zillion other videos of other women with that sound clip doing the exact same stupid thing, and it doesn't make any sense in any of them. There's the occasional woman with her boobs hanging out or perhaps they have a milk jug or are drinking a milkshake so it makes some sort of sense. (Page with a zillion such stupid videos here.)

It's the dumbest tit ever, even by TikTok standards. I hope that I've done some community service here by helping those who don't have the app understand what a pile of feces TikTok is (by and large--like I said, there is the occasional gem buried in the poo). This is a weird case where even the original is dumb as tit and makes no bleeping sense, and for some bleeping unexplainable reason over 1500 dumb hoes copied it. (Sorry, don't usually call women dumb hoes, but these are.)

P's Tik Tok is cringy because she is a frumpy 40 yr old trying to put out the same content as people half her age. And not only that, she doesnt do it well. She is trying to relive her youth, through her kids, their friends, Tik Tok, any means possible. And we all know you cant turn back the clock. There are all kinds of other things she could do on Tik Tok beside try to dance. She stands there....stares at the device she is watching and trying to copy....misses the 1st part of every dance...bouncing in place and grinning like a demented cheerleader. I seriously get embarrassed for her and I dont even like her.

I just now had a chance to look at the Milkshake one. Thank God she wasnt trying to dance. I was 31 when Milkshake came out. Good times. LOL

All assa needs is a 70's porn mustache...sorry I will share the brain bleach

BOW CHICKA BOW BOW!! lol

 

[cucumber]

So I don't know how many of you have TikTok, but (regarding the milkshake thing) the way it works is basically people reuse the same audio file and basically copy each other's videos. There are some exceptions where people use their own sound or are the first to use a particular sound file, and then perhaps they get copied by other people. And then there are some good people who do something really interesting or creative. But the vast majority of content on TikTok is like....really extremely low effort bullshit where people copy other stuff, like 30-second lip sync videos. It is so, so sad--but I do use the app because like I said, for every 99 people who produce garbage there is a person who creates something truly unique and valuable.

Anyway, so the point is that there are about a zillion other videos of other women with that sound clip doing the exact same stupid thing, and it doesn't make any sense in any of them. There's the occasional woman with her boobs hanging out or perhaps they have a milk jug or are drinking a milkshake so it makes some sort of sense. (Page with a zillion such stupid videos here.)

It's the dumbest tit ever, even by TikTok standards. I hope that I've done some community service here by helping those who don't have the app understand what a pile of feces TikTok is (by and large--like I said, there is the occasional gem buried in the poo). This is a weird case where even the original is dumb as tit and makes no bleeping sense, and for some bleeping unexplainable reason over 1500 dumb hoes copied it. (Sorry, don't usually call women dumb hoes, but these are.)

Laws can claim adulthood but that does not mean one is an adult. I have seen FEW 18 year old males that could take care of themselves. He doesn't have a HS diploma, so yeah he could work for minimum wage somewhere. But you certainly could not live off of that. He will find his way in time, he just will...haven't we all?

I agree basically. I just feel sorry for Isaiah having had to put up with all the BS for 18 years. I really hopes he does well in college because I think his eyes are gonna be opened!

 

[therealamylynn]

Here ya go..it’s at the 5:00 mark..and Isiah is also dancing w his mother..seriously,at that age my kids would have ran away from home had I pulled something like that!

I could never ever imagine doing that to my son at his party. That was disgusting.