Fathering Autism #57 New Studio and Kitchen Remodel so P doesn't have far to Waddle Waddle

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Why did big P and Becca even go with A and Abbie to get the haircut? They just sat in the car.
Maybe some after haircut trip to zaxby's?
 
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He only did one of those steps. Bring snacks. I think the haircut was so cute on her.
For reference...pre-WLS for Cilly. Blonde is not her best color.

I understand why maybe one person is needed. But they had three, right there in the face of the stylist. Overkill or overbearing?

Abbie is being held by Cilly and Isaiah because she is trying to get up. Can you imagine how overstimulated she becomes during haircuts.
 
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@Melissa Roper Not sure if you knew this or not but, the hambeasts were the ones who said "special needs".
They stated they don't want Abbie's hair to be cut short because it "made her look special needs".
Personally, I believe that Abbie is far more IDD than Autistic. While I do not agree with stereotyping - it happens - and profoundly IDD diagnosed people do look different.
Way moreso than someone who is just on the Autism spectrum.
At least in my opinion.
 
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Abi has a sweet little face and a short bob suits her, it would give her hair a chance to regain condition besides it being more practical. It's that useless lump P who likes long hair so makes her daughter suffer for her choices. Long hair equals less hair salon visits in her tiny mind which makes her life easier overall.

The kitchen renovation......is it just me or does it look exactly like the old one, white and boring. They can harp on all they like about the fancy induction hob cooling quickly but what about the pans that are boiling hot and contain food that's boiling hot.
 
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Abbie looks so sad in that last screen shot. Either these idiot parents are insanely ignorant or they just do not fucking care.
He had more than just gummi bears in that bag cuz he said "here....we can start off with these" when showing them to her. Plus Pirates Booty in the car. Plus looks like they stopped somewhere else on the way home because her straggly greasy hair was yanked back into an ugly pony tail.

Why did big P and Becca even go with A and Abbie to get the haircut? They just sat in the car.
Maybe some after haircut trip to zaxby's?
You got it!

Reminds me of Helen Keller.

Exactly! Its all about them. If Ab would be able to talk, they wouldn't liaten to her anyway. Her opinion would mean nothing.
 
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Asa has mentioned the IDD in a couple recent vlogs if I'm not mistaken.
 
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Thank you for clarification.
The vlog I just saw was Autistic Girl Haircut for Back to School. In the vlog from Fathering Autism (2 years ago) the haircut starts about 8:40 in the vlog and she is not jerking her head around and getting treats every 2 seconds. That is why I think that she regressed and needs edible reinforcements now.
 
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The difference is that Helen Keller was brilliant. But it took an Annie Sullivan to unveil that brilliance.
 
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I couldn't agree more. Her sensory needs are always the least of their priorities. A simple pair of sunglasses, headphones with a playlist running and stim toys would save the day
Right so why didn't she have a chewy or stim toy along with her? Cuz he WANTED some kind of confrontation from her for the vlog.
 
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They had to know Abbie wouldn't wear her mask the whole time. So they had to know they would be putting the hair stylists life in danger. She doesn't NEED a hair cut. Learn to cut it yourself. It's so infuriating how they are just going about their every day lives as if thousands of people aren't dying every day.
 
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Unreal!!! Asa looked totally out of place there along with Abbie. Wonder if prior filming permission was obtained? I'm sure that hair stylist was ready to "pack it in" and say "I tried, I'm done." AND I hope she at least got a good tip for her effort!?
 
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Just started the vlog and stopped it already to comment here....how do you not get your hair trimmed for 3 years! I went 1 year once and felt unkept...why is P such a sergeant when it comes to how much is being cut but she doesn’t take her in? I dunno shouldn’t she take her?
 
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I hope she got a good tip. That whole haircut experience probably cost close to $50 including the tip. It doesn’t look like a cheap salon.
 
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And wait...why couldn’t they take her to a super cuts or a simple place if it’s just going to be a trim?
 
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There is no way P could manage her alone in a situation like that.
 
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The difference is that Helen Keller was brilliant. But it took an Annie Sullivan to unveil that brilliance.
Yes, I know, but didn't want to say "like Helen Keller without intelligence". She was brilliant, I agree. But they still left it long enough for her to chew on it and hang in her face. Too bad mullets aren't in style. Seriously. That would be perfect. This video was excellent example of what he needs to show more of.
 
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Some comments from the vlog on FB. I think that this suggested cut would look amazing with Abbie's dimples. No idea why the one leghumper got so angry about it. But these are the people following the shit show.


 
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And wait...why couldn’t they take her to a super cuts or a simple place if it’s just going to be a trim?
Abbie wouldn't have been comfortable even at a super cuts or a less fancy salon. There still would've been behavior issues with her being suddenly put in a situation she's not familiar with. They practiced dr. appt procedu rd es with her...practice hair trims at home a few times then take her for the haircut...pre-advising the salon....IMO
 
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There is no way P could manage her alone in a situation like that.
Agree....Ab would have bolted and been half way down the street to Zaxbys before Pigfuckles could catch her. And as far as the ceiling bothering her, she does that looking up thing even when they are at home and they are making her do something she doesn't want to do.
 
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