Okay, I watched it.
Big props for Assa telling Isaiah "Do cool tit, and if you do stupid tit only do it once."
That's good advice, and that may have been the most real social interaction I've seen on FA in literally years. That really is the most honest and non-performative thing I recall him saying since the early days.
The general goodbye scene was sweet.
At the beginning of the vlog he commented that they might be better parents if Abbie would let them get some sleep.
To repeat what I assume has been said over & over for the last 44 threads (I skimmed & am still skimming) - better & earlier strict bedtime routine, more activity both physical and mental during the day, routine routine routine. That's how they can be better parents. She needs that as it is, but it'll help with sleep.
I get it. One of my kids will not sleep, will literally stay up all night engaging in their primary stim/special interest (cubing) and keep going the next day if I don't intervene. I have to medicate at bedtime, I have to make sure they abide by a strict bedtime schedule, and I have to do it every single day without fail.
And I have to be a good parent even if this child has a tough night. That's just being a parent.
The house thing does not sound like a good idea at all.
Aside from the questionable financials involved and whether it would be worth the cost of the mortgage....
We have no idea what sort of world we'll be living in next fall. I don't want to sound like a doomer, but we may have to fundamentally change how schooling, college especially, works for the near future. We don't know how well we'll be able to contain this damn virus, even with a vaccine, and it may change our ability to do things like have 120 kids crammed in a lecture hall. What if primarily virtual learning has to be the norm for another year, or five years?
Things are not going so well in the schools that have reopened already. They're open for a week or two and suddenly - massive outbreak, gotta close!
Who knows what the economy will do. These are not normal times and to me it seems like buying an "investment property" right now will be like buying one at the end of 2007. The risk vs. reward is almost 100% on the risk end of the spectrum!