It makes me kind of sick that they don't pay attention to any clues she might be giving that she's uncomfortable. I know that things like a headache or stomachache can absolutely ruin my day and make me not want to leave the house. Whenever she's upset or doesn't want to interact, they always push her or say she's being cranky or misbehaving. Best case scenario, they send her to her room. She's like a baby, she can't directly tell you what's wrong so you need to PAY ATTENTION. How many times has she tried, in her own way, to tell them she doesn't feel well and they just dismiss her and tell her to be quiet and sit on the couch?
My scalp hurts looking at her! She looked like she enjoyed having her hair brushed so she might like having it blowdried or getting a scalp massage before bed.... it would probably help her relax and wind down too.