You have some members who thought Abbie should have been attended to right away because she was upset and crying. Then you have others saying she was fine and can wait.
I do not believe she has to be run to every time she cries. But, she was not feeling well and she was hungry. They videoed the lady singing so was it necessary for all of them to stand and watch that nonsense? One could have stayed and got Abbie's breakfast. Not because she has to be tended to immediately, but because it is the nice thing to do when she just got up and wasn't feeling well. Also remember Abbie does not know why she is not feeling right, she can't figure that out in her head like most kids can, to her...something is just not right. A sinus headache can put me down and make me nauseous, feel very crummy, but I understand what it is.
And on that note: if someone rang my bell and started singing? I would take the balloons, say "thanks" and shut the damn door. I would hate someone doing that to me at work, at home, at a restaurant...I do not like that crap for me at all.