I was the one who asked, what about Abbie have to taste her own medicine.
I never said anyone should physically hurt her.
And i don't apologise for that question.
This girl never had to face any discipline
and the result was her aggressive behavior towards her own mother and peoples trying to help her.
You seem to have a problem with peoples having another opinion and that's kind of sad.
By the way, i grew up with a severely autistic family member, who used to beat every one of us into a lump, even our parents, who were unable to teach h
rules and discipline.
I know exactly what can happen and no love or understanding in the world will
change the emotions and aggression of a human being with a severe neurological disorder that can be dangerous to others.
Pinching, biting, kicking is not discipline and it if wasn't meant to hurt...was it meant to be done playfully? Either way I do not think it's a good idea. That is just my opinion. Yours is yours. Nothing wrong with discourse...I have absolutely no issue with someone else's opinion. You seem to have a problem when someone does not agree with you.
I believe Abbie does need discipline like every other child. I just do not believe in physically doing anything like that to her. Doing it playfully, makes her think it's ok to do that. I believe doing it hard (so she can have a taste of her own medicine) will make her do it more. Just my opinion.
I doubt Ab has ever seen a dentist chair given how poor her teeth continue to look as each year passes. She's even missing a tooth (could be a few, but they would most certainly never talk about it), I remember Assa noticed it in a vlog and was so passive about it. It was just like, huh...a tooth fell out. lol lol lol oh well. It was semi-recent too, while they've been in the new house. So who knows how long it had been gone. But given her diet, those teeth will just continue to worsen, especially as she heads into adulthood because no flossing or thorough teeth brushing is happening from her parents.
I know they don't want to deal with it, but they need to. Neglecting Ab's teeth is a disservice to her physical health. God forbid she ever has a tooth so rotted it's actually making her sick. Or her wisdom teeth become an issue. They would never know. Yes, she probably would have to be sedated for it, but better that than not knowing what's going on with her dental health. Or having her lose too many of her teeth.
A permanent tooth did not fall out. Was probably a baby tooth.
I am quite sure her DR does take a peak at her teeth so they would know if she had any massive decay that would cause pain. At some point she will need to go to the dentist, yes and I believe she will need to be sedated for a check up. Then if she needed an dental work, more than likely she would be a hospital case, put under and all work done at once.
Being that I saw tens of thousands of children both NT and disabled....many parents do not take care of their kids teeth or their own for that matter. Most people hate to go to the dentist and many. many will put it off until they have pain. Not at all unusual.
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