They better take care of their health if they want to continue caretaking for Abbie throughout their/her life. I watched my typical almost 10 year old grandchild from 8-5:30 today. We took her to the mall after waiting at home for the mall opening time. I’m exhausted to the point of being weak, and I am in fairly good shape for a 69 year old. And she was beautifully behaved (for the most part)..but the constant monitoring (I don’t take my eyes off her in public for a second) and trying to keep up, I can’t even imagine how it could be to watch Abbie at this age, or even 10-15 years younger. It’s not too late for them to get healthy, they are still relatively young. Kids need energy! And I do count Abbie as a kid, no matter what age.