I watched the live from start to finish but not from the angle of getting goss but I wanted to watch her and Mags interact. It’s intrigued me a bit. Most of the posters tonight have caught all the main comments etc.. (well done
as I missed some of them). I’m currently doing lots in work about levels of emotional intelligence and body language so I thought I’d look at this as a bit of a case study (yeah I’m a bit if a nerd)…
So here are my notes -
- This was very planned in terms of Mags taking the leadership role and reading the questions. Grace did mention her dyslexia but my feeling was it was so that she didn’t see any negative comments as Mags was the police on that bit
- Mags was on growl control from minute one, you could see she wasn’t overly invested in what was being said by Grace but listening to trigger words and obviously scaling the comments..
- There must be a fear that Grace can’t cope with her audience so a type of moderator is there to look like they are having the chats but it’s really to act as a firewall
- It’s very obvious from reactions that Mags isn’t on the same wave length as Grace but the older sister slash mother figure thing (and I didn’t realise until tonight it was a 10 year gap) that it’s like a protection thing maybe
- The Dom thing was so muddled. She answered a basic question, had to follow up with the rest of the question and then brought it back to the backpacking etc…..
In summary, it’s very clear why Grace behaves the way she does and those behaviours were set long before she came online. I’m glad I wasted this evening watching it as I was always baffled how her family let her be so spoiled. There is no fixing Grace. I think a mixture of an age gap with siblings, father passing, Mags with a fiery personality becoming an unofficial mother figure, a very easy going mother who probably just wants a hassle free life AND now a big baby of a husband etc.. and now there just apply temporary sticking plasters when there is an issue and they move on..
But what’s clear is no matter how they feel about her, the outside vilification is wrong and they think of “their Grace” rather than a slightly public figure doing wrong … and folks that’s why she will never (in my view) be sat down at home and made feel accountable for her actions..
Sorry for the long post peoples 🫠🫠🫠