I watched the live from start to finish but not from the angle of getting goss but I wanted to watch her and Mags interact. Itās intrigued me a bit. Most of the posters tonight have caught all the main comments etc.. (well done
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as I missed some of them). Iām currently doing lots in work about levels of emotional intelligence and body language so I thought Iād look at this as a bit of a case study (yeah Iām a bit if a nerd)ā¦
So here are my notes -
- This was very planned in terms of Mags taking the leadership role and reading the questions. Grace did mention her dyslexia but my feeling was it was so that she didnāt see any negative comments as Mags was the police on that bit
- Mags was on growl control from minute one, you could see she wasnāt overly invested in what was being said by Grace but listening to trigger words and obviously scaling the comments..
- There must be a fear that Grace canāt cope with her audience so a type of moderator is there to look like they are having the chats but itās really to act as a firewall
- Itās very obvious from reactions that Mags isnāt on the same wave length as Grace but the older sister slash mother figure thing (and I didnāt realise until tonight it was a 10 year gap) that itās like a protection thing maybe
- The Dom thing was so muddled. She answered a basic question, had to follow up with the rest of the question and then brought it back to the backpacking etcā¦..
In summary, itās very clear why Grace behaves the way she does and those behaviours were set long before she came online. Iām glad I wasted this evening watching it as I was always baffled how her family let her be so spoiled. There is no fixing Grace. I think a mixture of an age gap with siblings, father passing, Mags with a fiery personality becoming an unofficial mother figure, a very easy going mother who probably just wants a hassle free life AND now a big baby of a husband etc.. and now there just apply temporary sticking plasters when there is an issue and they move on..
But whatās clear is no matter how they feel about her, the outside vilification is wrong and they think of ātheir Graceā rather than a slightly public figure doing wrong ā¦ and folks thatās why she will never (in my view) be sat down at home and made feel accountable for her actions..
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