Im not sure she will cope with anything going wrong on the day and as anyone who has had a wedding will know, it does! My cars cancelled 2 days before, a bridemaid dress split in half walking out the door to the car, my photographer was late and in a mood, i got a serious migraine and spent the whole night after the first dance, in bed, missing my evening party. But i got on with it because i was married and had a whole life to focus on. Grace won't cope. She doesnt see the bigger picture. How special it is to have her kids with her. The week of a wedding is pure pressure but it can be joyful. She is only showing the bits she thinks we want to see. In reality, organising a wedding is nothing like she has made it out to be. Its hard to believe she is not the only participant in this day. I spent 2 years organising mine but it was all DIY because i couldnt afford anything else. I waited for sales, I sat up night after night hand writing invites. I even made my own bouquet the night before with the last flowers i could buy that day. We do what we can because, yes its a celebration but its about your life together not as an individual and what YOU want.