Estee Lalonde #5 Navigating through life one Aslan's trust fund transfer at a time.

[getawaywithit]

I have seen doctors about potentially having PMDD— you really shouldn’t try to self-diagnose because there can be a lot of other things going on.

Estee just started to post about learning about the existence of PMDD about a month or so ago. You need time to try different things and really monitor your cycle. And like I said, while it’s really good to be aware, you also risk attributing other things to PMDD.

Some other people here have speculated about Estée potentially being bipolar, and some in really sensitive ways pointing out various traits. (Not sure if the proper terminology is being or having bipolar). I think if she noticed things like ending relationships on a whim and these kind of swings, she should definitely try to treat that and look for a diagnosis. If she really thought she was bipolar I hope she sought intensive mental health treatment but…. I guess we know that is unlikely.

 

[yomac]

In todays vlog- shes growing her hair and might get extensions. Also, goes to get her uterus checked- says she's not having a baby any time soon b but like, I don't watch her regularly and this is the 2nd time she's brought it up. If you wanna have a baby, own it girl! If its a manic personality change (a la hew hair), think about it girl!

Also how do we know Aslan invests in MW? And what sort of salary is she taking?

 

[Quietpeony]

In todays vlog- shes growing her hair and might get extensions. Also, goes to get her uterus checked- says she's not having a baby any time soon b but like, I don't watch her regularly and this is the 2nd time she's brought it up. If you wanna have a baby, own it girl! If its a manic personality change (a la hew hair), think about it girl!

Also how do we know Aslan invests in MW? And what sort of salary is she taking?

It’s on companies house website. You can see he has shares and apparently so do most of her employees. That doesn’t mean they own the company though she still has the most shares and power.

I don’t get this new era: long acrylic nails she did a few weeks ago and now long hair and potentially extensions. She would swear for years it’s all about short natural nails and her short bob and now 180 change… hopefully it’s not because this is what her latest guy is into.

 

[londongirl2001]

Estee says she can come into the office whenever she likes, and it really seems as if three hours of "work" are the max. She came in "late", ate, moaned about the office being chaotic and then had the doctor's appointment at 2 pm. I doubt she really does anything other than bring in food, eat at her desk and play the boss. It's all surface level, which is why her talk about changing her hair makes sense. She's not really confident in herself, so she needs her hair to look a certain way to express what she wants to be. I wish instead of just growing it out, she would consider going for a warmer tone, but she seems to still love the Nick Carter 90s look, so...

 

[Callan]

Estee says she can come into the office whenever she likes, and it really seems as if three hours of "work" are the max. She came in "late", ate, moaned about the office being chaotic and then had the doctor's appointment at 2 pm. I doubt she really does anything other than bring in food, eat at her desk and play the boss. It's all surface level, which is why her talk about changing her hair makes sense. She's not really confident in herself, so she needs her hair to look a certain way to express what she wants to be. I wish instead of just growing it out, she would consider going for a warmer tone, but she seems to still love the Nick Carter 90s look, so...

Other than being an AD for the silk stuff she got send to talk about this Vlog is about nothing so far... lol, about to watch the parts you mentioned.

 

[ccc123000]

Hair extensions AND acrylic nails? Woah. This is a complete 180 from the Estee I know of from the mid 2010s. Weird. But yeah, a child is not something you can quickly undo, so she should think long and hard about that one.

 

[Rosie34567-2]

"I'm really happy with my hair."

Ladies (and gents), if your hair looks like this right after an appointment: run and don't ever go back to that salon.
This is appallingly bad...seriously, what planet does she live on? And why does she keep going back? Is it a sponsored/free haircut???

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I've said this before, but I'm going to say it again: It pisses me off so much how she keeps bringing up how she wants children (and seems to be taking serious steps towards making that happen!). It's not okay.

Wanting children is not a valid enough reason to have them. You have to look at your life and see if it is appropriate to have them.

And, imo, it's flat out inappropriate for Estee to have them. She can't even handle herself. She's a wreck, and even in this vlog, we can see she's manic and does not have her mental health issues under control. On top of that her housing situation is all up in the air, she's single/doesn't have family near her, etc. She has a full on mental breakdown if she needs to take her dog for a walk and she's not in the mood, can you imagine what she'd be like with a crying baby?

Nope, nope, nope. I'm not supporting this.

 

[Callan]

Estee talking about having kids is terrifying to be honest.

 

[gmik8210]

"I'm really happy with my hair."

Ladies (and gents), if your hair looks like this right after an appointment: run and don't ever go back to that salon.
This is appallingly bad...seriously, what planet does she live on? And why does she keep going back? Is it a sponsored/free haircut???

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I've said this before, but I'm going to say it again: It pisses me off so much how she keeps bringing up how she wants children (and seems to be taking serious steps towards making that happen!). It's not okay.

Wanting children is not a valid enough reason to have them. You have to look at your life and see if it is appropriate to have them.

And, imo, it's flat out inappropriate for Estee to have them. She can't even handle herself. She's a wreck, and even in this vlog, we can see she's manic and does not have her mental health issues under control. On top of that her housing situation is all up in the air, she's single/doesn't have family near her, etc. She has a full on mental breakdown if she needs to take her dog for a walk and she's not in the mood, can you imagine what she'd be like with a crying baby?

Nope, nope, nope. I'm not supporting this.

Despite some of my comments, I actually don't mind Estee - though she's odd at times and i don't think she works very hard.

I kind of commiserate with her on the child front. When you're a single woman, in your 30s (or about to be 40 like me) and everyone around you is engaged, married, starting a family (or has several kids already) and you're just here with nothing, you begin to feel inadequate. And then you think "maybe having a baby will help make me feel whole and aligned with my peers" but you don't have a partner, so you start thinking about doing things solo. I certainly did. Paid a few hundred to see a specialist, have a conversation about donors, do the ultrasounds etc, then after a while you think how hard it will be to do it all alone... me, plus a dog, plus a baby, plus working full-time, and then you realise it's not realistic unless you're willing to give a few things up like your liberties as a single person and probably your dog, and maybe even your career. Because the reality is you CANNOT have it all.

Ugh, it's honestly so hard. I feel for her.

 

[Rosie34567-2]

I guess she has officially announced she's in a new relationship now...

Maybe I'm an extra mean conspiracy theorist lol, but I wouldn't put it past Estee to "accidentally" (but very much on purpose) get pregnant.

 

[gmik8210]

I guess she has officially announced she's in a new relationship now...

Maybe I'm an extra mean conspiracy theorist lol, but I wouldn't put it past Estee to "accidentally" (but very much on purpose) get pregnant.

Well she has the man now! That will def make it easier and cheaper lolol, she did say she has lots of follicles. Good luck to her

 

[tomatosauce000]

Does anyone think there is any possibility the new bf is Aslan?

 

[megama101]

Maybe I'm being unfair, but it seems a bit weird that in the same podcast she's 'hard launching' her new bf, she's gushing about how her relationship with Aslan was the best she's ever had etc... I mean even if it's the case surely most people wouldn't say something like that out of respect for their current partner?!

 

[Hasanah123]

Maybe I'm being unfair, but it seems a bit weird that in the same podcast she's 'hard launching' her new bf, she's gushing about how her relationship with Aslan was the best she's ever had etc... I mean even if it's the case surely most people wouldn't say something like that out of respect for their current partner?!

Hes an investor, she needs to keep him on side

 

[megama101]

Hes an investor, she needs to keep him on side

Even so, I think it's a bit much... she already said she owes everything to him and it's because of him she has this life in London, seems odd that felt it was appropriate to take it that far...

 

[Hasanah123]

Even so, I think it's a bit much... she already said she owes everything to him and it's because of him she has this life in London, seems odd that felt it was appropriate to take it that far...

But she isnt lying, he saved her from being the weed head she was living in her mums basement, he gave her life she didnt have or would never have had

 

[calabazarock]

It’s on companies house website. You can see he has shares and apparently so do most of her employees. That doesn’t mean they own the company though she still has the most shares and power.

I don’t get this new era: long acrylic nails she did a few weeks ago and now long hair and potentially extensions. She would swear for years it’s all about short natural nails and her short bob and now 180 change… hopefully it’s not because this is what her latest guy is into.

I think is absolutely because of the guy.

Edit: I want to add on top of all the baby things mentioned, pregnancy and postpartum are very fragile times for mental health. She already has MH issues she seems to not take care of appropriately.

 

[getawaywithit]

Even so, I think it's a bit much... she already said she owes everything to him and it's because of him she has this life in London, seems odd that felt it was appropriate to take it that far...

Yeah I think it’s weird, moreso in the sense that if she is serious about him in the way she lets on, then it’s weird to think of another relationship as the best you’ve ever had and to say it publicly. It’s just not something you’d feel if this was the one for you— unless she misspoke. Like when you are in LOVE love, you even move on from that one idealized early relationship you‘ve been idealizing.

Also thought it was weird that when Emma congratulated her Estée said something like, well there’s also been a LOT of ups and downs. In the tone of voice she usually has for work and other ‘stressful’ irritations. Like… okay, lol.

 

[StoppitANDshuddup]

Despite some of my comments, I actually don't mind Estee - though she's odd at times and i don't think she works very hard.

I kind of commiserate with her on the child front. When you're a single woman, in your 30s (or about to be 40 like me) and everyone around you is engaged, married, starting a family (or has several kids already) and you're just here with nothing, you begin to feel inadequate. And then you think "maybe having a baby will help make me feel whole and aligned with my peers" but you don't have a partner, so you start thinking about doing things solo. I certainly did. Paid a few hundred to see a specialist, have a conversation about donors, do the ultrasounds etc, then after a while you think how hard it will be to do it all alone... me, plus a dog, plus a baby, plus working full-time, and then you realise it's not realistic unless you're willing to give a few things up like your liberties as a single person and probably your dog, and maybe even your career. Because the reality is you CANNOT have it all.

Ugh, it's honestly so hard. I feel for her.

Same here. It’s so difficult when women are forced into a position of having to consider fertility especially when single. She’s financially stable & will probably be a wonderful parent.

That said… why does she always say ‘we’ and ‘sent to us’. It’s fine to be alone.

 

[londongirl2001]

Same here. It’s so difficult when women are forced into a position of having to consider fertility especially when single. She’s financially stable & will probably be a wonderful parent.

That said… why does she always say ‘we’ and ‘sent to us’. It’s fine to be alone.

She recently soft launched her boyfriend that she (most likely) lives with in the house, so I don’t think she’s alone/single.