laylamich_
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Exactly! Jordan had his cake and ate it and it was passed off as “co parenting”. Co parenting isn’t having cosy nights in with your baby dad, going to his families for dinner most nights and taking them on your family holiday. That’s friends with benefits with a kid invovled at the least, now he’s moved on and he’s not interested this is when it will become actual co parenting and it’s already going tits upNah sorry don’t agree. I don’t care how old someone is, when they decide to become a parent they grow the fuck up and stop acting like an airy, fairy teenager. Regardless of age her own daughter quite clearly hasn’t crossed her mind. Who would want that kind of life for their child? The poor kid must be so confused. One minute mummy and daddy are best friends and the next they’re not because daddy moved on and mummy can’t handle it. I for sure would put my own feelings and heartache aside and strictly co-parent from the start, no matter how hard it was. I wouldn’t end up pregnant again and raise yet another child as a single parent. Her child should have come first and she didn’t. Esme SHOULD have been focusing on a healthy co-parenting relationship and she couldn’t do it. She’s in her 20’s and she knows right and wrong.
Also like to add I’ve been in toxic relationships and if I had my son back then, I sure as hell would have ran for the hills. He comes before me and always will. I’m only a few years older than esme but I’m not an idiot and I sure as hell don’t fall for anyone’s bullshit.