Her kids will be brought up on guilt, shame and manipulation. They'll be like her carers and not allowed to leave her side
I think it depends on the type of person you are. I wouldn’t go by Emma, she’s shrouded in post natal depression that was never treated and she’s an incredibly selfish woman. I didn’t plan to have my son, and took me a few months to bond with him, which is quite normal I believe. She longed for her children and doesn’t seem to have bonded in fact she comes across as resentful. She dieted through her pregnancy, they ruin her sleep and she has to spend money on themI haven’t got kids and not sure I want them…but what if I decide to have them and end up as unhappy as Emma?
She would be like this with or without children. Nothing in her life will ever be good enough or meet her standards because she’s unhappy with herself. It was, ultimately, selfish to drag two kids into her shitshow. She’s emotionally abusing them and seems to still see herself as the victim.I haven’t got kids and not sure I want them…but what if I decide to have them and end up as unhappy as Emma?
Nailed it.She would be like this with or without children. Nothing in her life will ever be good enough or meet her standards because she’s unhappy with herself. It was, ultimately, selfish to drag two kids into her shitshow. She’s emotionally abusing them and seems to still see herself as the victim.
I still don't think it's PND tbh.I think it depends on the type of person you are. I wouldn’t go by Emma, she’s shrouded in post natal depression that was never treated and she’s an incredibly selfish woman. I didn’t plan to have my son, and took me a few months to bond with him, which is quite normal I believe. She longed for her children and doesn’t seem to have bonded in fact she comes across as resentful. She dieted through her pregnancy, they ruin her sleep and she has to spend money on them
She was exactly the same before kids. Always complaining about John and anything and everything.I haven’t got kids and not sure I want them…but what if I decide to have them and end up as unhappy as Emma?
She was complaining about James waking up at 6am too. That's pretty normal for a 4 year old imoLazy parenting is the worst- if a child has difficulties due to medical needs absolutely send them school not toilet trained but if it’s a case of you couldn’t be bothered (as in Emma’s case) then school would rightly be annoyed too.
It’s his birthday today and she has done nothing but moan. If H isn’t sleeping and is waking for over 6 hours a night then I would most definitely be getting her seen, that isn’t normal behaviour for how frequently it happens. Maybe she is hungry? Maybe it’s the fact she gets taken downstairs and tv on along with lights?
Wait until tomorrow when it’s ‘full day at work on no sleep’ and whinge whinge whinge.
please don’t ever think you’ll end up like her. She has been a miserable cow most of her life.I haven’t got kids and not sure I want them…but what if I decide to have them and end up as unhappy as Emma?
Just because someone has kids and is miserable doesn't mean it's post natal depression.I think it depends on the type of person you are. I wouldn’t go by Emma, she’s shrouded in post natal depression that was never treated and she’s an incredibly selfish woman. I didn’t plan to have my son, and took me a few months to bond with him, which is quite normal I believe. She longed for her children and doesn’t seem to have bonded in fact she comes across as resentful. She dieted through her pregnancy, they ruin her sleep and she has to spend money on them