I would find it so bizarre to turn up to a bbq at a friends place & find out they’ve already cooked it
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
The men usually hover around cooking, chatting drinking beers, while the women get some salads or nibbles ready, having a wine & gossiping with each other, kids all playing together.
Goes to show these people rock up for a free feed and leave, they aren’t interested in her or her company one single bit.
Gatherings I go to have no 30 year old dudes trying to beat the kids at BBall, no showing off. The fact she lets these men around her kids is a whole other issue, especially how they openly support (TT).