no, fostering you do.
yes that was me. It’s hard when people have children when you’re desperate. I have one child, but currently I’m struggling to TTC and everyone seems to be pregnant. Emma would vanish for days at a time, and Tony would text me saying I was “too much for Emma to handle”. I rarely mentioned my baby or sent photos, as I knew she didn’t want to know... and that’s absolutely fine.
they went down the adoption process and Emma was hurt when she was turned down. TBH I would be devastated if it happened to me, and I empathise with her massively on that.