Well done for getting through the nope days, it is a wonderful feeling to overcome days like that. For me, sometimes looking at Imma can be a bit like looking in a mirror, but feeling uncomfortable in that way is motivation to change. Like you say the frustrating bit is she has got all the time and money in the world to help herself but refuses to! And we would all be supportive of Imma if we saw lasting change, she could be, dare I say it, a bit inspiring if she actually committed to therapy and exercise. But she prefers to stay in bed and glean sympathy from othersWell done for facing it! Therapy is hard but so worth it.
I had a lot of nope days, but I was a lot younger - half her age. Some of the comments only make me feel uncomfortable because they are basically what was going through my head at that time - lazy, slob, worthless, can't handle anything etc. Difference is, I stayed in bed to hide my shame, I would have been SO ashamed to post it on social media, even to a handful of trusted followers in private. I feel uncomfortable talking about it now even. To display it on a public platform, when you have thousands of followers just doesn't make sense to me. I know everyone handles things differently but still. I was motivated every time the depression eased a little to find something to help because I hated feeling and being that way so much. If I had access to her kind of money, I would have been paying for the best therapy and experimenting with as many different tools as I could until I found the answers. If she's lacking new content, that could easily be her thing. True transparency and her journey to mental wellness. Which therapies she found worked, what was tough and how she coped with it (no crunchies necessary).
I can only think that deep down maybe she feels she hasn't got anything to offer, so she's scared of getting better and having no excuses.
Her to-do lists make me so uncomfortable for some reason..... The childish writing with glitter pens etc. seems more appropriate for someone 20 years younger than her. Maybe I'm just being too judgemental of people who like stationary.glad to see the jars worked for her though
Why is a 5 second job of ordering chargers in it would be nice to? Hardly strenuousglad to see the jars worked for her though
And instead of saying a non-committed “I want to” why not be more determined and go with “Today I must” or “today I will achieve” might give you a positivity boost.Her to-do lists make me so uncomfortable for some reason..... The childish writing with glitter pens etc. seems more appropriate for someone 20 years younger than her. Maybe I'm just being too judgemental of people who like stationary.
Imma's to do list:Why is a 5 second job of ordering chargers in it would be nice to? Hardly strenuous
God yes, I'd love to see what she could achieve with her supposed finances and some effort on her part! She's so far in her pit right now, there's a million little things she could do to improve her mental state. Even the smallest change could make a big difference. She's flogging a dead horse with the same old crap on her to do lists though. Emma - maybe take an actual well planned break from the business and do some health challenges? Step away from Instagram for a day and come back and tell us the little positive steps you've done for yourself? Wake up at 8am, have a shower, get dressed, go for a walk straight after a healthy breakfast, have some water, enjoy some meditation and stretching and do some journalling. Then after lunch, maybe clean up your bed and vow to yourself that you're going to find tools for coping that don't involve going back to bed.Well done for getting through the nope days, it is a wonderful feeling to overcome days like that. For me, sometimes looking at Imma can be a bit like looking in a mirror, but feeling uncomfortable in that way is motivation to change. Like you say the frustrating bit is she has got all the time and money in the world to help herself but refuses to! And we would all be supportive of Imma if we saw lasting change, she could be, dare I say it, a bit inspiring if she actually committed to therapy and exercise. But she prefers to stay in bed and glean sympathy from others
It would be nice to.... package sales?glad to see the jars worked for her though
Sulking is definitely what she's doing. Honestly she's really pissing me off with all these staying in bed days, she's absolutely patheticShe literally PAID for a weight loss tool, a very very good tool if used correctly. All she had to do was eat healthily and go for a walk every day. She didn’t even have to just eat salad, there’s plenty of home cooked food that can be healthy, spaghetti bolognaise, chilli, fish, jacket potatoes etc. If home made she could have had most foods just without the calories or grease of a takeaway. She didn’t even need to go hard at the gym if she didn’t want to. As she has a lot of weight to lose, the first 6/7 stone should have been pretty easy with just basic steps to aid that.
I’m actually embarrassed for her, she hasn’t even tried and now she’s sulking. If she had really tried and failed then fair enough, but all she’s done is eat shit and drink sugar
It’s in reference to her obsession with saying “Imma” as in “Imma stay in bed all day, Imma gonna eat aallll the food!”Ok what have I missed why is everyone calling her Imma? Hahaha
She could have ordered chargers in the time it took her to write it down on her list!Why is a 5 second job of ordering chargers in it would be nice to? Hardly strenuous
Yeah funny why she mentioned it and also the hospital...make phone calls would have sufficed, no one needs to know your personal business and who you are calling...unless you want to make it known that you are a "caring" daughter.Fingers crossed she follows her call to adult social services through.... Funny how she had to specify it isnt it.... She must be in full panic mode as we are about to report her and she hopes her mentioning it means we won't. Sadly we can see straight through you, Emma.
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