A nope year more like.
Nope life! All that work she did initially creating a following, just so slob through life. She needs to take some serious responsibility for something. Anything!
external validation from strangersThere are SO many healthier options these days. I’m trying to lose weight but on my weigh day I have a treat, this weekend I fancy a pizza. I could get dominoes and probably tit myself after due to the amount of gluten, or I could go Iceland get my favourite pizza which is about 800cals for the whole thing (which I’ll have half of) and save myself £25. No one is saying you have to be perfect every day, even health conscious people aren’t but one treat a week won’t damage your weight loss, 5 treats a day will!
Yeah of course, I meant that if she had access to his accounts it didn't seem like much of a reach for her to have POA for his financial side of things. That can be pretty much automated so even her lazy ass could cope
Slimming world also do meals at Iceland. Ovbs frozen so she could pick at them when she needed knowing they wont be of waste! They are not even that expensive!
What the duck ??? I would go bananas if my husband uploaded a photo of me like that
I've struggled with severe depression and sometimes I feel uncomfortable with comments made on tattle about the things she does, but I don't think you overstepped posting that pic. Her social media postings are so odd, she's not brave in her posting pictures of herself in bed to such a large following. She's not open about her mental health and what she actually does to get through (beyond bed and junk food - you know, healthy tools like exercise) or improve it.. or maybe she doesn't post that because she doesn't do anything. It all feels so fake and toxic and very much seeking attention and validation. Even tattle probably enables it all for her.In all seriousness I do hope she can figure a way out of her depression nest, she really needs to get therapy. I feel like I stepped over an invisible line posting that photo so to clarify I'm not making fun of her depression, just her way of attention seeking online is ridiculous. Instagram posts aren't helping you Imma, just focus on yourself for a while, and learn ways to feel better without
I know what you mean, I struggle with depression too and been in therapy for over 6 months now which is definitely helping. I see some of myself in Imma sometimes, which is why I can't understand why she doesn't help herself. I'd love to indulge that part of my brain that wants nope days but if I do I feel worse x
Fully in agreement with this. I’m also trying to loose weight and am an emotional eater. I always used to say I eat when I’m happy, sad or medium
But I’m trying to overcome that and just have the odd treat once a week like you say. It’s something to look forward to in these lockdown times. Emma seems to have a treat with every meal which is something I used to do too. It’s hard to overcome but she could do it, it’s just a case that she doesn’t want to.Well done for facing it! Therapy is hard but so worth it.
The fact you’re doing therapy means you are nothing like her (which is good, YOURE making active desk jobs to get better) Don’t get me wrong I’ve been in and out of therapy for the better part of a decade (I’m in my mid 20s so it’s sucked) and it is so so hard opening up to a stranger. Butttttt she needs to but the bullet once you get trough the first few sessions it gets easier. And don’t get me wrong the day after therapy I always feel like I’ve taken 20 steps back because it brings up a whole load of emotions and trauma I’d pushed down but eventually it feels so good being able to change those behaviours. I’d rather have a day or so of feeling like tit than a whole lifetime. But that’s what confuses me the most when ever I’ve been depressed all I can think about is I wanna get better ‘ I wanna feel ‘normal’ so how does she not feel that and go right I need help
I'm so glad that therapy is helping you and I'm so happy you posted that as it's a big help! I feel awful for 2 days after therapy every week and keep wanting to give it up! It's good to know that other people experience that post therapy dip (but not good that it happens). I think Imma has had therapy before and even hypnotherapy? Not sure why she's not accessing it now, it's a tool just like WLS
Not gunna lie I’ve just re read what I wrote and I don’t know why active decisions changed to active desk jobs
but yeah it’s completely normal I spoke to one of my old therapists about it and basically it’s the natural response also feeling emotionally exhausted right after as well. But once you have your tool kit of coping techniques even the day after is easier because you can put them in place straight away
