I hope I don't sound mean in saying this as I do feel sorry for Emily regarding her childhood but I would think due to her suffering abuse as a child, that she wouldn't want to infantise herself around her husband if that makes sense.. that she would want to make sure she was womanly around him. Arrghh I'm not making sense but I just find it weird that she makes herself sound like a baby when talking to her husband, especially given her vile stepfathers.