Elle Darby-Swift #76 'The Texas Chain-Store Ambassador'

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I had the same surgery at age 6, mine worked - although I can make my eyes move independently now! They say the younger you have it done the better the outcome/likelihood of it not reversing. How old was Elle when she had it? Only started following a couple of years ago
...it was 2018 - around the time she was called out by the owner of a hotel - for wanting a free holiday in return for 'exposure' 😂

Where are the dogs? I'm sure I've not seen them in this vlog......and they haven't mentioned them????
 
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...it was 2018 - around the time she was called out by the owner of a hotel - for wanting a free holiday in return for 'exposure' 😂

Where are the dogs? I'm sure I've not seen them in this vlog......and they haven't mentioned them????
Briefly saw one today in the background. First time I’ve watch for a while, she’s still as annoying 😂
 
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Why on earth would she put her kids in daycare and not spend those precious days with them??!! She doesn’t work, she doesn’t even leave the house. She’s a class A lazy twit!
Because they are kids. They need to be spending their early years socialising and building relationships with other kids their own age.

Tagging along to her costco and walmart trips will do nothing for their development
 
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I think the positive for the kids being in day care means they at least get to now interact more with other kids and people outside of the Darby-Swift bubble.

EDL lounging about is doing herself no favours at all. It's clearly a long holiday at this point, and not the permanent move they claimed it would be and have wasted so much money on it all. She knows that, and that's leading to her current Coastal Slobgirl Era.
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I had the same surgery at age 6, mine worked - although I can make my eyes move independently now! They say the younger you have it done the better the outcome/likelihood of it not reversing. How old was Elle when she had it? Only started following a couple of years ago
Late teens/early 20's in the earlier days of her YouTube channel. That's why her eyes were so red in the video when she addresses the White Moose fall out, as she'd just had it done.
 
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Because they are kids. They need to be spending their early years socialising and building relationships with other kids their own age.

Tagging along to her costco and walmart trips will do nothing for their development
I never put mine in as I stayed home with them, however we did loads of baby classes, play groups, park trips etc.
 
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If she was smart she would find a parent cooperative nursery school for herself and her children. It was a total lifesaver for me when my DH's job took us to California where we knew no one. It's a preschool program where the parents must work a certain number of hours either in the classroom or doing school maintenance work or fundraising. They have parenting classes in the evening as well. Best place ever to meet parents in the same situation as you, usually mums staying home with their kids until kindergarten starts. 20 years later I still have friends from that school.
 
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If she was smart she would find a parent cooperative nursery school for herself and her children. It was a total lifesaver for me when my DH's job took us to California where we knew no one. It's a preschool program where the parents must work a certain number of hours either in the classroom or doing school maintenance work or fundraising. They have parenting classes in the evening as well. Best place ever to meet parents in the same situation as you, usually mums staying home with their kids until kindergarten starts. 20 years later I still have friends from that school.
That’s sounds amazing!
 
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Because they are kids. They need to be spending their early years socialising and building relationships with other kids their own age.

Tagging along to her costco and walmart trips will do nothing for their development
Then join mummy groups! She will regret missing these moments just so she can lay in her own filth in bed!
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I never put mine in as I stayed home with them, however we did loads of baby classes, play groups, park trips etc.
This!!!
 
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If she was smart she would find a parent cooperative nursery school for herself and her children. It was a total lifesaver for me when my DH's job took us to California where we knew no one. It's a preschool program where the parents must work a certain number of hours either in the classroom or doing school maintenance work or fundraising. They have parenting classes in the evening as well. Best place ever to meet parents in the same situation as you, usually mums staying home with their kids until kindergarten starts. 20 years later I still have friends from that school.
that’s amazing that there was something like that!

she seems to have no interest in trying to integrate into the community and build connections. That’s essential when you move somewhere where you know no one but she doesn’t seem bothered.
Why go out and mingle and spend time making friends when you can sat in your “dream home” reading a book or going to the supermarket for the 10th time in a week for more junk food. No one would be good enough for Elle to be her friend in her eyes, she’d look down her nose at everyone and witch behind their backs.
 
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Whilst there is nothing wrong with wanting your toddler to socialise with other children , that isn’t what Elle’s reasoning was for putting the boys in daycare.

She made it pretty clear she doesn’t have a village in America ( really !? ) and then went on to vaguely mention she has stuff going on behind the scenes and exciting things to come so aka needs some peace and quiet ( pockets of peace I think she said ) to get stuff done - stuff seems to be reading fiction books and doing skincare so far.

Seemed as though Saint must have been in childcare the day she filmed as it appeared to only be Romeo at home - surely they would be in daycare on the same days otherwise that defeats her purpose for childcare.
 
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This 100%! Given their jobs 😂 they should have rented their house out, stored their furniture asked family or friends or even long term foster to look after the dogs and gone over to the states for a year to see if they liked it or for just a really long road trip type thing.
Definitely agree with this. They should have done a 6 months extended USA holiday. Gone to different states each month or something. It probably would have made better content, people might have been interested to follow it and would have been much cheaper and renting their house out here would have pretty much paid for it all. Instead they’ve potentially destroyed their finances and future (depending on how much they actually have as it’s impossible to tell what’s real money and what’s all for show) But then people like them seem to claw their way back from everything. I can’t see a way where they don’t end up moving back though or even that was the orignal plan anyway and they just do it for drama content “guyssss were coming backkkkkk”
 
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I do need to add, for the boys, Saint especially, being in Day care will be do good for him, much better than sitting in fast food joints or shopping in free people. He must miss his cousins.
 
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hmm maybe the initial 'high' of it all has worn off.Its all fun and games til you realise this is actually life now and you know nobody.I do think everyone especially someone who is such a homebody as Elle would feel the same.I can imagine its quite lonely.They must have spent so much money already and probably dont feel any happier than they did at home .
 
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Definitely agree with this. They should have done a 6 months extended USA holiday. Gone to different states each month or something. It probably would have made better content, people might have been interested to follow it and would have been much cheaper and renting their house out here would have pretty much paid for it all. Instead they’ve potentially destroyed their finances and future (depending on how much they actually have as it’s impossible to tell what’s real money and what’s all for show) But then people like them seem to claw their way back from everything. I can’t see a way where they don’t end up moving back though or even that was the orignal plan anyway and they just do it for drama content “guyssss were coming backkkkkk”
Let’s be honest… she’s not the sharpest knife in the drawer. What you mentioned is what 99% of normal minded people would do. But this move is purely for content as a last ditch effort to save her insta career.
 
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Let’s be honest… she’s not the sharpest knife in the drawer. What you mentioned is what 99% of normal minded people would do. But this move is purely for content as a last ditch effort to save her insta career.
It doesn't matter where she lives in the world, her past will catch up with her.....
 
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Why after 3 years has she decided to stop showing Saint. 😆 her blabbing on about not showing the kids and respecting them etc.

What is going on with this women she's clearly very much missing UK etc & it's OK to feel like that, but just admit it. Like people have said they should've jsut done an extended holiday, now everything's settled down she is looking miserable af but can't come home untill their lease is up on house now 🙈 backward bills
 
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I think the power dynamic is changing in the marriage as well , Connor is trying to do things on his own , she will realise he doesn’t need her like he seemed to in the uk
 
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It would be really odd not to have days or even longer of missing home, of thinking have we made a mistake m of being really really homesick/in tears, it’s a huge move and just admit it.
 
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She obviously had a good day yday as she said that she wished she had seen this day before she made the move.
So that screams she's really been struggling. I just don't think America is for her. I think she loves the idea of America. America is beautiful and I understand her love for it- but living there and having a holiday are 2 different things. I think she's always been a home bird. I think Connor is grabbing it with both hands and really living for the moment. I actually think he's grown up alot. That's not me fan girling connor. I just think this mantra she spouts about being present and living your best life isn't what she's about at all! Connor is more like that! He seems to embrace whatever elle throws at him next.
 
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Living with Elle must be so mentally draining, I honestly don't know how Con man does it
 
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