I am not surprised by the split at all she hasn't seemed happy for ages. I think it's unfair to blame her for the split it takes 2 to make a relationship fail. I know Elaine hasn't done enough to get herself ready for IVF but he hasn't sorted his issue out either. I would not have stayed in a relationship that long if my other half couldn't finish. I think simply that the age gap caught up with them, I'm nearly 34 and couldn't be with someone as old as Neil.