I wasn’t sympathising, I’m thinking what a mess to get yourself into. That if they do end up old and grey together, they won’t remember their wedding how it should be remembered, she’ll remember how she cared more about content for her SM and spent those first wedded weeks glued to her phone, looking at what others think, tearing herself apart in photos because Sarah from Norfolk thinks her dress is ugly and people she doesn’t know and will never meet are laughing at the height difference. She’ll probably get to a point where she questions her choices and reasons for getting married. And it’s a sad state of affairs whether she has brought it on herself or not. I just think it’s quite sad and quite tragic tbh. Destroying your life all on your very own because you have a need to be validated on the internet.