Well now she says she was being abused and gaslit and couldn't tell the world the truth about how unhappy she really was the whole time
I’m sure everyone she is ever close to will be referred to like this at some stage.Well now she says she was being abused and gaslit and couldn't tell the world the truth about how unhappy she really was the whole time
I agree. She sung his praises in a private group that he didn't belong to wasn't doing it to appease him . She dedicated her PhD to him and the kidsI’m sure all that was true, until it wasn’t because she had to change the narrative to fit in with leaving him for Jaimi.
There is so much to unpack here. Saying this about her ex husband, who is now bringing the children up when her children can see it seems so damaging and confusing for them. If their dad is so abusive, why do they live with him, when he might not even have PR over one of them. They must be wondering this.
The only explanation as to why they live with him if everything she has said is true is that she lost residency of them in court and it wasn't by choice he has them, but again, one of them he likely doesn't have PR for. Unless he adopted him and then got residency in court because she either didn't fight it or they found her unfit.
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The fact he's never spoke up makes me think he's either a great dad thinking only of the kids or she has a big hold over him (perhaps £85,000 worth of hold). He must need her for child maintenance too, but he can get that court ordered and say what he likes.
Surely even her most ardent supporters must think about the impact such words would have on her kids. My mum is a narcissist and my heart really goes out to anyone unfortunate enough to have parents like this.Yes you're right Boogs ! But oh God those poor kids. No doubt their classmates/classmates parents see this stuff she spouts. Must be awful for them.
Someone on Facebook asked about this and was shot down by JT and one of her minionsSurely even her most ardent supporters must think about the impact such words would have on her kids. My mum is a narcissist and my heart really goes out to anyone unfortunate enough to have parents like this.
This is around the time I became aware of her too. I saw the ECT stuff and was like this seems very one sidedI noticed her around 2018 on Twitter when she was still pretending to be gender-critical. I became wary of her when I saw her saying things about ECT and mental health wards which I knew to be untrue/highly exaggerated and seemed like her information came more from old movies than from clinical experience. She's gradually become more extreme as she's realised there's an audience for her black-and-white, psychiatry/medications always bad, everything is trauma narrative.
It was a huge relief to realise there were other people with concerns. I was so bewildered by all the fawning over her.
I really hope Alex speaks outNo one’s denying this happens in abusive relationships or that anyone who said they loved their abuser is now lying about ever being abused
What is questionable, and entirely relevant given it relates to her work, is that she has spoken/written in a professional context about how abusive men should never be given custody of sons because they will train them to hate and abuse women. But she allowed (not a decision of family court) her sons to live with a man who according to her is abusive, a misogynist, homophobic, and possibly a sex offender. While marketing herself as an expert in, among other things, “trauma informed” parenting, family violence, and how to raise boys to respect women
I not denying this happens in abusive relationships (although having been in an abusive relationship that I left at great emotional and financial expense, I'd have sawn my own leg off with a butter knife before I embarassed myself gushing about him to my friends on social media, even when things were "good" I'd have felt embarassed raving about what a great person he was and it wouldn't have made him treat me any better), I just think in this relationship Jess was and continues to be the abuser.Hi Jess!
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I totally understand all of this, and agree. What I don't understand is why, after seeing it, you wouldn't be trying to help your children leave the abusive home of a rapist. Especially when you have the money and a best friend who is apparently a big shot barrister.
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The trauma tool's 'personalised and detailed' response after ripping peoples trauma open is.... "google it".
I'm so glad we have Jessica's powerful brain educating people the uses of googling. It's so widely unknown.
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Apparently it's an opt out to share information with her, ethically, knowing people miss boxes or don't read and skip things, this doesn't seem OK. I don't know of it states what she'll do with the information in detail but again, consent seems iffy.
The amazing free tool she made just seems to be a data mining app, collecting stuff for her next book.
And Alex wouldn't have even see these posts so they were not to appease him.I not denying this happens in abusive relationships (although having been in an abusive relationship that I left at great emotional and financial expense, I'd have sawn my own leg off with a butter knife before I embarassed myself gushing about him to my friends on social media, even when things were "good" I'd have felt embarassed raving about what a great person he was and it wouldn't have made him treat me any better), I just think in this relationship Jess was and continues to be the abuser.
I'd also lay down and die before I allowed my children to live with a rapist and abuser, especially the child to whom the alleged abuser has no genetic or legal link.
There is nothing less feminist than using accusations of abuse as a get out of jail free card. Everything she says is manipulation.