Does it feel like they’re avoiding living together a bit? When my OH and I got our first house after living with parents we couldn’t wait to be together, live together, have our own space. We got the keys and just whacked a mattress on the floor and got on with it, as we were just so excited! They don’t have a massive renovation job to do - all cosmetic - what stopped them doing up a bedroom and living there happily whilst doing it up?