Aw this made me laugh and feel sad for him at the same time
Aw this made me laugh and feel sad for him at the same timeHonestly, I can't give you proper advice. I usually make up some lame excuse such as I have something I need to dobut because I am not interested in this person, I don't really feel that bad about it, I just feel awkward. I just can't make myself sit through a date if it's honestly not going well.
A guy (friend from uni - this was years ago) took me to Winter Wonderland for a date and it was going so badly (he did not talk, at all, I was so exhausted of his silence and bored of hearing my own voice trying to start up a conversation, he did not want to do anything, just walk around in silence), I excused myself by saying I had to go home to feed my cat... I got on the train home and received a message straight away saying "I'm sorry this date didn't go well.." so he knew I was just doing a runner
I went on a date in August and almost ran out while he was ordering our first drinks at the bar.. It was too open plan so I couldn’t escape.I’ve never been on a date where I’ve wanted to do a runner after 1 drinkhow do you make your excuses?
I'd say 1-2 hours for the first date.How long do your first dates normally last?
The thing is we had been friends for a long time when we were at uni together so it's not like we were strangers and we were fine messaging loads leading up to the date and then on the day of the date he had nothing to sayAw this made me laugh and feel sad for him at the same timehe sounds like he was hard work
I’d say 3/4 hours if it’s going well. Less than 2 hours if it’s a bit meh or even less if it’s an absolute no.How long do your first dates normally last?
I started to do afternoon coffee dates as it's much easier to make your excuses, like you're going to meet a friend, etc. I went for a drink during the evening with this one bloke and he really was hard work. We just did not gel, totally different senses of humour, etc. After a gruelling 45 mins I just said, "Well, I'd better be off!" Gave no reason whatsoeverI’ve never been on a date where I’ve wanted to do a runner after 1 drinkhow do you make your excuses?
Love this idea! And then you don't have to spend all day getting nervous about it! Just me??I would like if breakfast dates were more of a thing. I just love brunch/breakfast so much hahahha. Also once the date is over, it gives you more time to do things with your day or even spend more time with that date if it goes well.
Haven't had the chance to suggest this yet but maybe I will in the future
I swear we've all dated the same guy at this pointI went on a date once where he talked alot about himself. When he finally asked about me he kinda zoned out so I said 'oh you're not really listening are you?' at least he was honest and said 'no' so I got up and left.
He wasn't hot enough to pull a stunt like that.
Another date, as we walked to the bar told me all about his drug and drink problems but I felt I couldn't back out because I'd be seen as a judgemental bitch. Anyway we sit down hestarts moaning about his ex and how she cheated on him blah blah blah and how he could never call me by my name because that's the name of his ex
Well he was a delight. I got up and left and he STILL messaged and asked me for another date
This guy 'forgot' because he wanted a shag and he probably thought having kids would idk make him less attractiveOoh. I once waited over a month to tell someone I had a daughter and I was so scared to tell him. It was one of those text and then clean your entire house before you’re brave enough check their reaction moments.
He was fine with it
This is the most irritating thing, I always remove them as soon as I’ve fucked them off to avoid it.So last week I mentioned a guy who started messaging me and talking about his ex and what a „nice guy” he was…
Does he not understand what “I’m not interested” means?!
I’m on my 40s and have kids in their 20s so it would be icky for me... but go for it!! Also....where are the decent men in their 40’s?Bus driver and I have been texting all day (long story of how he got my number) he thought I was 29 (think he’s just being kind) but he’s only 26.
Considering just using him as a sex slave. Thoughts?
SO TRUE!! It makes such a boring and non satisfying conversation. UghhhI swear a huge proportion of men seem to have nothing more interesting to talk about than food and travel...like yes, most humans also like these things, *Chandler voice* could you BE any more generic
Ugh he seems the worst!!! What does he think will happen by doing this, does he think he can guilt trip you into changing your mind?!So last week I mentioned a guy who started messaging me and talking about his ex and what a „nice guy” he was…
Does he not understand what “I’m not interested” means?!
I don’t see why he thinks I’d turn around and be like “yes please take me on a date!”Ugh he seems the worst!!! What does he think will happen by doing this, does he think he can guilt trip you into changing your mind?!
Rather than block him I would just leave him on read to annoy him.
I only just qualify for the 40’s but from everything I’ve read on this thread and the ick one, I’d be terrified of using online dating. Seems a total nightmare (entertaining to read mind you).I’m on my 40s and have kids in their 20s so it would be icky for me... but go for it!! Also....where are the decent men in their 40’s?
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