I will never understand men
Yep he was quite tipsy and I was not haha. He text me after saying that I didn't seem into his advances etc and then the next morning apologised for coming on so strong, tricky one
I will never understand menBeen texting with a guy who seems genuinely normal and interested (a good start) and he asked if I want to meet next weekend for food and drinks
We were texting on Sunday night and he said if I can let him know which day is best on the weekend, he will book somewhere. I said I will let him know the next day and we carried on chatting. He stopped replying and this was okay as he mentioned he was at the pub with friends.
But then he never replied all day yesterday - I sent another text just to let him know Saturday works best for me - and he hasn’t even read it? And I’ve seen him online multiple times? Am I about to be ghosted lol
Oh god! This would turn me off completely but that’s just mewas he tipsy? Because that’s probably the only excuse I’d maybe let off haha
Does it not put you off? Do you ever meet people in public places just to ensure you're safe?Nothing at all. I was on edge a little that night, but I never heard from him afterwards. It's as though it never happened. Bizzare!
It made me only give my full address to them when I see they have arrived on my street, instead of giving my house number straight away. Sometimes, I've met at their house and I like that better, especially as I'm nosey. LolDoes it not put you off? Do you ever meet people in public places just to ensure you're safe?
He obviously thinks that normal, I had a similar date and the conversation always had to go back to the same topic (you can guess) and it was such a waste of time.I will never understand men
Yep he was quite tipsy and I was not haha. He text me after saying that I didn't seem into his advances etc and then the next morning apologised for coming on so strong, tricky one
Don’t give him the satisfaction of a reply.Oh it’s not hours, we’re talking days or over a week sometimesand it’s not like the convo has fizzled out and he naturally stops texting because obviously that happens which is fine, it’s literally we’ll be texting back and forth and literally in the middle of a convo and he just doesn’t reply. And then like a week later he’ll be like hi what you doing and then the whole thing happens again hes clearly just not that into me which is fine, I wish he just wouldn’t text me in the first place and disrupt my aura hahaha
But having them arrive on your street doesn't imply your safety does it? They could still be a complete psycho, who happens to have arrived on your street.It made me only give my full address to them when I see they have arrived on my street, instead of giving my house number straight away. Sometimes, I've met at their house and I like that better, especially as I'm nosey. Lol
I think we just want you to be safe and not end up on the 6pm news. After all, Ted Bundy and Andrew Cunanan were both attractive and very charming.It made me only give my full address to them when I see they have arrived on my street, instead of giving my house number straight away. Sometimes, I've met at their house and I like that better, especially as I'm nosey. Lol
aw brill.. had a nice feeling about this one as wellOmg yes you are being ghosted WHYYYYY DO THEY DO THIS
mhmm yeah, seems he is used to this and probably was taken aback that you weren’t so keen! I’d be wary about putting it down to first date nerves as he may only have one thing in mind annoyinglyI will never understand men
Yep he was quite tipsy and I was not haha. He text me after saying that I didn't seem into his advances etc and then the next morning apologised for coming on so strong, tricky one
Never catfished but I have met some men who really know how to take a good photo. They have not been unrecognisable from their photos but they have definitely been the worst and most unattractive version of who they portray in the photoAside from the classic lie about height (apparently if you're anywhere from 5'9 to 5'11, you're 6ft) anyone ever been catfished?
I’ve never been catfished (I’m absolutely sure it will happen one day though, think I’ve just been lucky so far!) but I know a few people who are catfishes, one male and two female.long time lurker, loooove this thread! I met my current bf in lockdown 1 having been painfully single for 3 years, but still feel traumatised from online dating cant lie
Aside from the classic lie about height (apparently if you're anywhere from 5'9 to 5'11, you're 6ft) anyone ever been catfished?
I kind of was. At first I thought he'd been using old pics cos there was a slight similarity there but I now believe they were pics of his younger brother who was 10 years younger, 10 stone lighter and much cuter than the fecker I got landed with. It made me very anxious because you then can't believe anything they've told you to that point so I really felt like I was sitting across from a complete stranger. I bailed out after about 45 mins because he was rude and obnoxious to top it all off. I was furious afterwards because of the time and effort wasted. I think there has to be something really wrong with people to do this and then believe they won't get caught outAside from the classic lie about height (apparently if you're anywhere from 5'9 to 5'11, you're 6ft) anyone ever been catfished?
omg I so sorry this happened to you but why would anyone do something like this? Im sure the people using old photos somehow must think that’s how they still look but people using someone else’s photos entirely, what’s the point?I kind of was. At first I thought he'd been using old pics cos there was a slight similarity there but I now believe they were pics of his younger brother who was 10 years younger, 10 stone lighter and much cuter than the fecker I got landed with. It made me very anxious because you then can't believe anything they've told you to that point so I really felt like I was sitting across from a complete stranger. I bailed out after about 45 mins because he was rude and obnoxious to top it all off. I was furious afterwards because of the time and effort wasted. I think there has to be something really wrong with people to do this and then believe they won't get caught out
Go for it. If you don't ask, you don't get.@Gloria Rostron I'm also a risky dater and have had first dates/ONS @ mine
I've decided I'm gonna ask my hot bin man if he's single next week
Must admit I have done this a few times as well@Gloria Rostron I'm also a risky dater and have had first dates/ONS @ mine
Me too! Once when a guy was on the way to mine for the first time, he was texting me about Ted Bundy and I started to panic slightly lol.Must admit I have done this a few times as wellIf it’s just a hook up I feel way more comfortable at mine than going to someone else’s house. Also had one or two first/second dates at mine because I’m lazy lol and I like a chilled out date!
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