YeahOoh. Plans for a second?
My Friday night date was so good. Iโve mentioned before that we dated before and in between the lockdowns but we were as close as ever. Sex was on fire toohaha.
Haha get it girl! Glad it's going well for you
Dating in Lockdown #2 The audacity of men
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Haha get it girl! Glad it's going well for you
I've got a dinner date @ 1, fingers crossed it goes well 
Date was a lovely guy but no spark
Ah sucks when that happens
Went on a date yesterday with a guy who seemed so funny and upbeat over text. He was a really nice guy in real life but actually quite dull and mundane sadly 
no spark there!
no spark there!
I'm not finding any success on Hinge. 0 matches and whoever has liked me I'm just like :/ am I just too fussy?
No, donโt ever settle for something meh
Sounds very much like all my online dates over the yearsWent on a date yesterday with a guy who seemed so funny and upbeat over text. He was a really nice guy in real life but actually quite dull and mundane sadly
I'm always so worried that this is how I come across on a first dateWent on a date yesterday with a guy who seemed so funny and upbeat over text. He was a really nice guy in real life but actually quite dull and mundane sadly
when I'm texting I've a bit of time to think up a witty response but on a first date the nerves get to me and either I clam up or witter on about 
. I think that's why I'd usually give men the benefit of the doubt and go on a second date if the opportunity came up, just in case they haven't shown their best selves either on the first date Iโve been using Facebook dating which I quite like lol
Aww yeah no I completely agree! First dates are scary and I think if someone was quiet or shy then Iโd definitely give them the benefit of the doubt. Unfortunately I think this wasnโt the case with this guy - he barely cracked a smileI'm always so worried that this is how I come across on a first date
Ah I hear ya. You get a gut feeling too which you have to listen to. And not smiling on a date is a big red flag.Aww yeah no I completely agree! First dates are scary and I think if someone was quiet or shy then Iโd definitely give them the benefit of the doubt. Unfortunately I think this wasnโt the case with this guy - he barely cracked a smile
Never. Donโt ever settle. Thinking youโre too fussy is showing too little self worth. I understand your thoughts but youโll end up with the two person if you think youโre too fussy and ultimately be unhappy
My adventures continue.... I have had a date on Friday night with a lovely lovely guy. Seeing him just confirmed what I thought of him. Conversation was flowing, he was funny etc. I asked him what he wanted and he said a girlfriend. He told me he liked me and that I was just as he expected. We made vague plan for the "future" for him to take me for a walk down the canals around his area... He went back to mine, he stayed. He was very affectionate (not talking sexually 
during the night and in the morning,. Then left around 10am.
We chatted a bit on Saturday then he was off for a few drinks with his mates. I texted him the next morning and he said he was really hungover as the night got a bit out of control. I was out with my friends yesterday so didn't text him much. I asked him if he would be up to meet again during the week and he said "yes just need to recover today
" then he sent me a couple of selfies to show me the state of him (that wasn't a pretty sight haha).
Haven't heard from him since.
I hope I am not overthinking it. He wasn't the best with texts throughout the day before the first date but I tend to always panic and be paranoid after the first date... I also think that I want to be reassured a lot as I have been messed around a lot and I am losing all confidence I may have had before
during the night and in the morning,. Then left around 10am.We chatted a bit on Saturday then he was off for a few drinks with his mates. I texted him the next morning and he said he was really hungover as the night got a bit out of control. I was out with my friends yesterday so didn't text him much. I asked him if he would be up to meet again during the week and he said "yes just need to recover today
" then he sent me a couple of selfies to show me the state of him (that wasn't a pretty sight haha).Haven't heard from him since.
I hope I am not overthinking it. He wasn't the best with texts throughout the day before the first date but I tend to always panic and be paranoid after the first date... I also think that I want to be reassured a lot as I have been messed around a lot and I am losing all confidence I may have had before
I'd be exactly the same don't worryMy adventures continue.... I have had a date on Friday night with a lovely lovely guy. Seeing him just confirmed what I thought of him. Conversation was flowing, he was funny etc. I asked him what he wanted and he said a girlfriend. He told me he liked me and that I was just as he expected. We made vague plan for the "future" for him to take me for a walk down the canals around his area... He went back to mine, he stayed. He was very affectionate (not talking sexually
We chatted a bit on Saturday then he was off for a few drinks with his mates. I texted him the next morning and he said he was really hungover as the night got a bit out of control. I was out with my friends yesterday so didn't text him much. I asked him if he would be up to meet again during the week and he said "yes just need to recover today
Haven't heard from him since.
I hope I am not overthinking it. He wasn't the best with texts throughout the day before the first date but I tend to always panic and be paranoid after the first date... I also think that I want to be reassured a lot as I have been messed around a lot and I am losing all confidence I may have had before
I know most people here are againt texting first or double texting but honestly I would drop him a bright and breezy message like "hey! Hope you've managed to recover haha" and then if he doesn't reply or seems a bit off then I guess you'll know. I genuinely think sometimes we don't want to send the first text, they don't want to send the first text and it gets us nowhere
Yes this is so true!! It feels like there are just so many rules to dating now. Why don't people follow their heart?I'd be exactly the same don't worry
I know most people here are againt texting first or double texting but honestly I would drop him a bright and breezy message like "hey! Hope you've managed to recover haha" and then if he doesn't reply or seems a bit off then I guess you'll know. I genuinely think sometimes we don't want to send the first text, they don't want to send the first text and it gets us nowhere
I have sent him the last text yesterday saying I just got home and was bloody freezing (yeah you bet after spending 8 hours outside a pub). He hasn't read it but has been online since. So I don't really want to insist...
I agree with this because otherwise itโll just f with your head until he replies and if heโs keen I donโt think heโll care if you check in.I'd be exactly the same don't worry
I know most people here are againt texting first or double texting but honestly I would drop him a bright and breezy message like "hey! Hope you've managed to recover haha" and then if he doesn't reply or seems a bit off then I guess you'll know. I genuinely think sometimes we don't want to send the first text, they don't want to send the first text and it gets us nowhere
Just came across a guy on Bumble advertising his Twitter... itโs full of complaints to companies
OhhYes this is so true!! It feels like there are just so many rules to dating now. Why don't people follow their heart?
I have sent him the last text yesterday saying I just got home and was bloody freezing (yeah you bet after spending 8 hours outside a pub). He hasn't read it but has been online since. So I don't really want to insist...
I hate when they do that!!he kept telling me on the night of the date and the next day how much of a great time he had. So would be a bit contradictory if he was going AWOL now.BUT nothing really surprises me now coming from menOhh
I think some guys get too far ahead in their own heads and freak themselves out, then run away as a resulthe kept telling me on the night of the date and the next day how much of a great time he had. So would be a bit contradictory if he was going AWOL now.BUT nothing really surprises me now coming from men
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