Ignoring him is stronger than a block cuz it's basically no reaction. I regret blocking someone before and making him think i give a duck in the first place.
Dating after lockdown #4 The bar for men is so low it's in hell
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Depends on the situation. Sometimes you’ve got to let people see how good you are without them by posting fire selfies on Snapchat and Instagram but other times you need to close doors to make sure someone who treats you like tit can’t have access to you again.
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In the past i have set my gender on "male" (i'm a straight woman) to see how the competition was out there
i would swipe left on every girl of course since i wasn't looking for a match then 5 mins later i would set my gender back on girl. I've also gotten a few girls, while using tider "normally" (as a woman) and their profiles said they were looking for female friends. This was years ago before bubmle had the bumble bff option
I see a few girls in my feed now and again, I just figured it was an app error.
This man with no chin wanting someone with a slim build
This slim blonde with blue eyes doesn't want you lol
Also, not sure if I'm being weird but men with like 2/3 young kids by their late 20s implies to me either 1) they were in a serious long term relationship that they are not long out of, or 2) they put it about a bit. Is that fair to say? Either way I think it's worth being wary of?
This man with no chin wanting someone with a slim build
This slim blonde with blue eyes doesn't want you lolAlso, not sure if I'm being weird but men with like 2/3 young kids by their late 20s implies to me either 1) they were in a serious long term relationship that they are not long out of, or 2) they put it about a bit. Is that fair to say? Either way I think it's worth being wary of?
I’ve literally given up even attempting to date. I’ve tried every app now and that’s not something I’ve ever done before! Before lockdown I had my first child (ex left me when I was pregnant, we got divorced, I’m my child’s only parent), and being a lesbian on top of having a child isn’t very appealing apparently
Think what he must be like in real life, you’re lucky he didn’t pretend to be decent!
Still annoyed that I didn’t get to meet the one funny guy I’ve talked to over the last year
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@whathastheworldcometo I think @LaurieLaurie is right, this is just about sex for him.
Anything could have happened to you since you last saw him on Sunday and he wouldn’t have a clue. He’s off doing whatever and seemingly not giving you a second thought, while you’re left checking when he was last online and second guessing why. It’s horribly unfair to you. Take back the power, archive him and thank u, next
Anything could have happened to you since you last saw him on Sunday and he wouldn’t have a clue. He’s off doing whatever and seemingly not giving you a second thought, while you’re left checking when he was last online and second guessing why. It’s horribly unfair to you. Take back the power, archive him and thank u, next
Thank you@whathastheworldcometo I think @LaurieLaurie is right, this is just about sex for him.
Anything could have happened to you since you last saw him on Sunday and he wouldn’t have a clue. He’s off doing whatever and seemingly not giving you a second thought, while you’re left checking when he was last online and second guessing why. It’s horribly unfair to you. Take back the power, archive him and thank u, next
My current Hinge match.. he’s 33 🥲
He’s piggin liked me again! The third time and every time, it’s a new profile.Indiana Jones has made a new profile about 4 times now and each time I’ve swiped left when I’ve come across him. This time he’s actually liked me.
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I’d just keep swiping no, my friends say they swipe until they run out of likes. Bloody men.He’s piggin liked me again! The third time and every time, it’s a new profile.
Block him
The trouble is, they just remake their profiles constantly to get around the blocks. I know because I've done it before and they still pop up like cockroaches in a nuclear war!!Block him
Today my mam was asking me where it’s going with the lad I’m seeing.. I just want him to make me wet mind your business
Feel free to shout at me 
Remember the prick from the other day? Well he turned up at my house (which is weird as I never gave him my address) said he wanted to apologise properly so stupid me let him in.
He tried it on, I kept moving his hands and pushing him away and saying I didn't want to but he kept on and on and pinning me down and choking me so in the end i just gave up and we had sex.
Then he left and now I feel tit.
Remember the prick from the other day? Well he turned up at my house (which is weird as I never gave him my address) said he wanted to apologise properly so stupid me let him in.
He tried it on, I kept moving his hands and pushing him away and saying I didn't want to but he kept on and on and pinning me down and choking me so in the end i just gave up and we had sex.
Then he left and now I feel tit.
No shouting at you but that’s rape. Have you spoken to anyone in real life about it? He needs to be reported.
So sorry that happened to you
So sorry that happened to you
That is rape and that man is dangerous. You need to report him. I'm really sorry you've been through that, it is 100% not your fault at all.
This is not ok at all.Feel free to shout at me
Remember the prick from the other day? Well he turned up at my house (which is weird as I never gave him my address) said he wanted to apologise properly so stupid me let him in.
He tried it on, I kept moving his hands and pushing him away and saying I didn't want to but he kept on and on and pinning me down and choking me so in the end i just gave up and we had sex.
Then he left and now I feel tit.
I agree with the posters that said you should report him.
Do you have his number? Give it to the police so that they can find out how he got your address.
He could come back anytime given he knows where you live if you don't report him (sorry, don't want to scare you).
Do you have a counsellor or friend/family member to talk to? It sounds like a horrible experience.
I don't have his number, only his sc and insta.
I'm not sure the police would do anything though? Is it actually rape just because I didn't want it? I shouldn't have let him in tbf, it's my fault.
I'm not sure the police would do anything though? Is it actually rape just because I didn't want it? I shouldn't have let him in tbf, it's my fault.
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