Yeah well this was his second message…Was chatting to this guy last night for all of 45 minutes before he gave me his number and proceeded to end the conversation like this. I get that sometimes there’s a lot of back and forth texting on dating apps but slow down fella, I don’t know if you’re a weirdo or not.
FYI - I have not taken him up on his offer
The fact that he's a Christian moderate, though...It could be worse…or could it?
Woah!
I thought it was only me who felt like this.Urrghhh I HATE it when they try to force a video call or phone call on you immediately. We’ve exchanged all of 2 messages hun, what do you imagine we’ll speak about?
I agree it’s horrible isn’t it? My friend knew my ex and his ex wife really really well and she didn’t want to tell me about what a snake he really was, but I dragged it out of her and I still didn’t listen. Ended up getting really hurt in the process. It’s just really hard to listen to sense when you’re in the lavender haze isn’t itI think this is the best advice! I went through this with someone, I was blinded by them and chose to ignore the red flags, even though they threw them out left, right and Centre. I was noticing the things, because I was telling friends about them but I was so sucked into my own fairytale of how amazing I thought they were and how I thought it would all work out in the end and in the end it ended badly. My mental health crumbled, they checked out but strung me along until they could lay the blame at my door that I caused the end of the relationship, and even then they dragged the break up out for 3 weeks whilst they decided what they wanted. It was a learning curve and a half and having now met someone new who’s completely different I kick myself for letting myself ignore those very very obvious red flags.
Is he usually bad at staying in touch?This guy I have been seeing is really bad at staying in touch.
We spent the weekend together and virtually no communication since then, he just responded briefly to a news article I sent him.
Am a bit put off by it, I find it insensitive.
Hmmm, hard to say, I have only known him for a few weeks.Is he usually bad at staying in touch?
I think if this has always been his pattern, then OK. But if it's a change in the ting behaviour then you need to take notice.Hmmm, hard to say, I have only known him for a few weeks.
But it was similar the weekend before, he left on Sunday evening and the first time I heard from him was Tuesday.
Maybe it’s just the way he is but I find it rude.Hmmm, hard to say, I have only known him for a few weeks.
But it was similar the weekend before, he left on Sunday evening and the first time I heard from him was Tuesday.
Thank you for validating how I feel.Maybe it’s just the way he is but I find it rude.
Whenever I’m dating someone they will text me as soon as they get home and then continuously until I see them again. I know people are busy and we all have lives but I don’t believe in any of these ‘Oh maybe they are doing X Y or Z’ theories when men vanish for hours at a time. They will make time to text or reply to you when they are really interested.
Yes, that's the one!@whathastheworldcometo Is this the same guy you mentioned before who had gone silent for two weeks? Did you end up having a chat with him about how the lack of comms was making you feel? I have dated a few guys who are similar with sporadic communication and whole days passing without hearing from them and I ALWAYS end up losing interest in favour of someone who texts more frequently. Your attention goes where it’s being reciprocated IMO. No one wants to feel like they’re always the one doing the chasing.
He didn’t believe I was real! I mean my profile is verified and all my pictures look like me!I thought it was only me who felt like this.
Also I am chilling on my sofa, watching tv or whatever. I can text you along side but I'm not at that point where I want to have to make ongoing conversation over the phone, that requires brain power
If they have written something on their profile or have interesting photos I’ll comment on that. If they haven’t made any effort with their profile then I will send a basic hey how is your week goingQuestion: How do you all start conversations on Bumble? Just a 'hey', or something to do with their profile etc?
I completely get this. It makes you feel a bit used and like they don’t have any interest in you outside of what they want / when they want it. It’s not nice. Have you told him how this makes you feel?I appreciate that he is a busy person but it kind of cheapens the time we spend together (especially as we have a lot of sex when we meet).
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