Dating after lockdown #4 The bar for men is so low it's in hell

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I am a Gemini and usually get on well with Leo and Sagittarius star signs.

But in general it is more about personality for me. I'm quite outgoing and playful and I like someone who can match that. I don't romantically connect well with quieter types who enjoy staying indoors.
 
@thunderfook This is the thing with dating apps, it’s giving very mehhh men one hell of an ego boost and it’s making them treat women as though they are disposable because there’s always someone else to move onto.
 
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Ah see, he was a Gemini and now they are like Satan to me. I am a Pisces though so we are not a good match!

@thunderfook This is the thing with dating apps, it’s giving very mehhh men one hell of an ego boost and it’s making them treat women as though they are disposable because there’s always someone else to move onto.
True, but she did say he’d been a gentleman, so he is the alpha in this situation and should take the lead.
 
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I've seen so many people say 'don't date ugly men because it gives them ideas above their station', apparently they treat you just as badly as the hot ones, so I'd rather be hurt by someone attractive than someone not
 
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Ah see, he was a Gemini and now they are like Satan to me. I am a Pisces though so we are not a good match!


True, but she did say he’d been a gentleman, so he is the alpha in this situation and should take the lead.
We're not a good match at all. I dated a pisces guy and he was a lot more reserved than me and much moodier . He'd also get much more upset over things than I would and enjoyed being at home away from crowds whereas I always wanted to be out and about at the weekends.
 
I've seen so many people say 'don't date ugly men because it gives them ideas above their station', apparently they treat you just as badly as the hot ones, so I'd rather be hurt by someone attractive than someone not
I can confirm they do treat you badly and have breakdowns over you seeing other people when you aren’t
 
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My friend has postulated this theory to me before. It's why she says I need to raise my standards (I tend to go for men who aren't conventionally attractive, and end up heartbroken by them)
 
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I've seen so many people say 'don't date ugly men because it gives them ideas above their station', apparently they treat you just as badly as the hot ones, so I'd rather be hurt by someone attractive than someone not
In fairness, this guy was very good looking. He was 3 stone overweight when I met him (so a bit of a catfish), but was well-groomed, facially beautiful and smelt absolutely edible! He was very bad in bed though so I suspect whilst he can attract them, he can’t satisfy or keep them!

I think you can tell that this Pisces is neither reserved or moody! He hated being dominated by me though, despite me being older!
 
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Who was it that said that even “verified” profiles can be fakes ones with someone else’s photos? It’s making me second guess if that is actually them in the photos now.
 
None of us do, Mark. None of us do.


He has two photos. Both in a balaclava. Ideal if you have a bank robber fetish.
 
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Someone needs to tell Dom here that women are actual humans and not just made to sexually please men
 
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Who was it that said that even “verified” profiles can be fakes ones with someone else’s photos? It’s making me second guess if that is actually them in the photos now.
Me - you can cerify your profile and then change your pictures to someone else.

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Someone needs to tell Dom here that women are actual humans and not just made to sexually please men
Someone needs to tell Dom he’s a massive cock, who probably has a wiener!
 
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Anyone else hate the gym w****rs who’s pictures are all selfies and they’re all ‘mind and body’ experts and ‘mental health advocates’. They then have a long list of demands and guess what they’re looking for…! I mean who cares what you are, do, have, think or feel if you just want to get laid!

Why would they though? It’s pointless and strikes me as someone overthinking.
Because they want you to think they’re someone else. It’s called cat fishing…! No overthinking on my part!
 
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Only on message two with a bloke and he aks, "Tell me, what is the thing you are proudest of most?"

Oh, I don't fecking know! I literally never have an answer for these types of stock questions.
 
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