Could you contact anybody else instead?I don't think advice on this thread ever comes from a place of anything other than kindness or concern, or based on past personal experience but tone is something that can be difficult to convey in writing and I know also that some people (like me) find tough love a bit, well, tough
I'm having an awful day (I'm sure to most people it would be a minor blip but for me it feels like the end of the world) and I'm the closest I've been in 18 months to messaging my Ex because I just miss his advice at times like this. He was always so good at talking me down from metaphorical ledges. So I'm posting here instead to remind myself that ultimately no good can come of contacting him. It'll pass soon hopefully.
I am also facing a bit of a challenge at the moment, I don't even want to handle it and so I am procrastinating.... So I understand the urge to look for comfort very well, but maybe Friends (the TV series or real life ones) and hot chocolate could help.