i can’t give advice eddy because i don’t know what you want from this guy
you refer to your dates as “dick appointments” and the main mentions of your interactions here are how many nudes you’re sending to each other. i assumed you were just having a good time with a hottie - are you actually wanting something serious with him? what do your meet-ups entail beyond the riding? does he know how much you like him?!No and he ain't ever going to if I keep chill instead of letting that A1 dick game get me fucked up.
eddy i am still confused about what exactly is happening here
BIB please infect me with your man hating views@LaBlonde I know several of us have said this before but honestly if you are not working in some sort of therapy based occupation, you really should be. You are so good at seeing beyond what any of us write, spotting the subtext, or what we leave out, and your responses are perfectly measured
I'm just a bitter old cynic about men currently so trying not to comment too much, I don't want to infect you all with my misandrist views
what about:
Well if that isn't the most accurate summary of myself I've ever seen on this here internet. Not even part of me either the whole 100% is SHOCKED
So help me god if you don't text no 2 I will bleeping text him it for you
that is very kind but no therapy here - i too am just a bitter old cynic who is increasingly frustrated by both men and dating mindsets@LaBlonde I know several of us have said this before but honestly if you are not working in some sort of therapy based occupation, you really should be. You are so good at seeing beyond what any of us write, spotting the subtext, or what we leave out, and your responses are perfectly measured
I'm just a bitter old cynic about men currently so trying not to comment too much, I don't want to infect you all with my misandrist views
but please comment more @Lalla - i miss you and your wisdom 
and you KNOW we always support misandrist views."Fallen in the dicksand" has me screamingBIB please infect me with your man hating views
@EddyDarling you've fallen in the dicksand from the sounds of it, we have all been there
) and I’m so so angry with myself for even wasting my time talking to him, I know he would never be there for me if I needed him..feel like I’ve taken 3 steps back with myself
i’m not gonna get at mad at you for being taken by surprise and having a conversation with him BUT like i and a number of other posters said to you a few threads back, this was always going to happen because of how reluctant you were (and still are it seems) to block him.Hi all, me again! Twice in 24 hours! I’m not here much as working such long days but I do read your updates and hope everyone is doing ok
I know you’re all going to mad at me….my friend called me up last night, he’s on holiday with his son and sons Gf, and something had happened to her and he was drunk and not making much sense…I was sleepy so I don’t remember much of the convo…next day he text me thanking me for my support and being there for him (can’t remember what I even said
Thank youi’m not gonna get at mad at you for being taken by surprise and having a conversation with him BUT like i and a number of other posters said to you a few threads back, this was always going to happen because of how reluctant you were (and still are it seems) to block him.
this is this man’s pattern of behaviour, it’s what he’s done to you time and time again. you either block him and shut it down, or this is going to keep happening
I know 
To be honest it had given me the ick anyway so I’m not so bothered by him, it’s more that lately I think I feel really taken advantage of by more than one of my friends for being too passive and kind…problem is when you’ve spent your life being this way how do you assert yourself without sound agressive?! so many people in my life right now, I want to tell to take their pity party and go inflict it on someone else…but it’s like the words stick in my throat as I also can’t do confrontation you don’t need to do confrontation in this case just, block him. he is cruel to you, takes advantage of you, lashes out at you when he’s backed into a corner, likes to exert control over you (ie like phoning you while drunk on holiday because he knows you will pick up): block him. BLOCK HIM.Thank you
100% this. I’m not victim blaming you, but you’re choosing this to happen. You picked up the phone. You engaged in conversation. You allowed him to thank you the next day.
