The Vit D makes people horny
The date never happened ladies. In a way I’m glad as he started to tell me over text messages about his very traumatic childhood and upbringing. I know this sounds horrible but I don’t want to be with someone that needs fixing. Anyway I’ve decided maybe I’m still not ready to date and I’m going to give myself some more time and focus on me.
hope you’re having a lovely weekend too
but I feel I’ve maybe given him the ick. Genuinely so gutted as it felt like it had such great potential. Dunno why I’m such an idiot, I’m utterly mortified 
Don’t be so hard on yourself. It’s probably the alcohol making you feel like that and it’s a depressant too. He probably is busy or there could be a number of other reasons why he’s not messaged yet. I would send him a casual message if you’ve not heard from him this evening making a light hearted joke about the wine and asking how his day has been. The fear from wine is making you create scenarios in your head that are 99% likely to be untrue.Hi ladies! I had a date yesterday and we had such a good time, we hit it off and he asked me out again, great chemistry, we both felt we could be ourselves around each other. Unfortunately drinking wine on an empty stomach did not work out well for me! And I was quite drunk leaving. We messaged afterwards but I’ve not heard of him today. I know he may be busy or having a super long sleep
waste of my time.. we’ve slept together in the past and been on dates but it’s literally just a fling and we don’t talk that much, regularly check in once a month and that’s it. Anyway, he text me this morning whilst I was at the gym and he said am I busy today, I could go round.. I thought duck you, you had your chance last night he’s nearly 40 and I’m nearly 30 so there’s a decade between us but my word he is in good shape 
lolI’d actually messaged him saying I felt a bit embarrassed, don’t ask me why
and he just replied ‘why babe’ hahaha 
wait, WHAT?!?! does she know that he ghosted you?Meant to be going on a date a week today. Not heard from him today, I've messaged him yesterday and mid conversation he stopped replying. Here we go again with the ghosting
Meanwhile, my sister has been on 3 dates with the last guy who ghosted me when we had a date arranged
Yeah, she knows we had a date arranged and that he had ghosted me, I'd sent her his profile when we started talking.
That’s shocking! He might very well do the same to her!
that seems incredibly disloyal of her tbh, i don’t think i would ever do that to my sister! yikes
about at the moment: it’s so cowardly, especially when you’ve made plans.It deffo does! I myself am a miserable drunk, I get very depressive and distrustful. Once you have had a good nights sleep and are more sober it’s usually easier to look on the bright side
That’s terrible! Are you close to your sister? Has she done something similar before? Sounds like betrayal to me 🫤 Please don’t be too hard on yourself about it, it’s definitely not your fault!
I told her after she first told me they had a date that I wasn't overly happy with it. But she told me that if she avoided every guy who had spoken to me/ghosted me that there would be nobody left 
If he likes you, you won’t be doubting things!
that's really bleeping weird!
Going places alone is incredible have fun! X
