Genuinely thought you were my age for some reason (30)37 but also simultaneously 19 and 79 in my soul.
Genuinely thought you were my age for some reason (30)37 but also simultaneously 19 and 79 in my soul.
Any decent guy wouldn’t do that. If one of your male friends told you they’d approached a woman like that, you’d probably be horrified and explain that’s just not how to do it.So I've just blocked someone & I feel like a bit of an asshole but the whole situation made me feel uneasy. Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable!!
So had a random text off an unknown number saying "hi, do you still live in [hometown] I've just moved to [nearby town]" so obviously I asked who it was. The reply was that they'd saved my number from when we spoke on tinder years agoso I said I'm sorry I don't remember you. His response was "I used to live in [nearby city] let's talk more"
At this point he's not even told me his name.
I just find it weird he a/kept my number b/messaged me c/ hasn't even told me who he is?!
Totally agree, weird and something not right there. You did the right thingSo I've just blocked someone & I feel like a bit of an asshole but the whole situation made me feel uneasy. Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable!!
So had a random text off an unknown number saying "hi, do you still live in [hometown] I've just moved to [nearby town]" so obviously I asked who it was. The reply was that they'd saved my number from when we spoke on tinder years agoso I said I'm sorry I don't remember you. His response was "I used to live in [nearby city] let's talk more"
At this point he's not even told me his name.
I just find it weird he a/kept my number b/messaged me c/ hasn't even told me who he is?!
i was once eddy, i was once 🥲Genuinely thought you were my age for some reason (30)
I’m 31 with 2 kids and got divorced 2 years ago…. I feel you!I’m 31 with 2 kids and getting divorced. Part of me feels glad it’s happened young I still have so much ahead but I also feel a failure and everyone my age on the apps aren’t in the same situation they haven’t done all the big stuff yet. My ex was 8 years older but I don’t really want to go too much older again
Because they were never really into us, and are now bored and looking for optionsCan someone tell us why men, who didn't show any interest in us when they had the chance, text us later down the line?
Sad but very very true. They're bored and we're probably one of several "options" for a booty call.Because they were never really into us, and are now bored and looking for options
I know it’s true because male friends have told me - it’s what they do!Sad but very very true. They're bored and we're probably one of several "options" for a booty call.
Yeh I hear you! I'm glad I asked for an extension on my dissertation because of having been inhospital, but it didn't help the university messed us around with the due date, first they said it was due the 21st then they said it was the 14th and because everyone freaked naturally they moved it to the 28th April, but I'm behind anyway due to extensions that were supposed to make my life easier (duck the school easter holidaysGot chatted up by a guy who tried to ask why I was wearing gloves in April…Maybe because it’s bloody baltic here in the evenings you git? He really thought he was doing me a favour by talking to me too
We are in the same boat here, I’m trying to finish my dissertation too and absolutely drowning in itI’d rather not have any holidays at all than spend them doing work TBH!
Yay to gin and new patio furniture @LaBlonde, sounds bloody lovely! I’d most definitely come despite my hay fever
I’m in my 20s but I feel at least 85…
I think it's boredom and trying their luck. Sadly it works because I've fallen for it enough times!Can someone tell us why men, who didn't show any interest in us when they had the chance, text us later down the line?