This is super annoying, I know you don’t have children but I’ve had this said to me by a male as I was single 8-10 years I lost count lol after my relationship broke down and just focused on career, child and life. I did meet someone and we are close to 2 years now even though it’s been a rocky road to adjust from being single into a relationship 🫠.also currently at lunch listening to two of my work colleagues discuss dating and how, at their ages (39), if you haven’t been in a long term relationship or have kids, then there’s probably “something wrong” and they won’t be interested so feeling amazing about myself rn
edit: okay i know i used theemoji but am genuinely quite upset by it. i already feel behind so many people my age and i guess it’s horrible hearing it actually confirmed out loud (not for the first time).
There is this terrible notion that without a partner you are just waiting to be caught when in reality women can have very fulfilling lives when single and are very attractive to a future partner. People do project their insecurities and try to bring people down when they live a life that they themselves do not understand.
Women who have standards and set the bar high are far more desirable than someone having relationships every 5-10 minutes like it has seen. Equally why would anyone choose to stay in a relationship that you are unhappy in, what a waste of a life.