yeah there’s no way you’d let your kid access your messages and calls, let alone if you were on the prowl for a new woman, who wants their child seeing those interactions?! BizarreiTunes is music so I’m not sure what he is talking about there.
If one FaceTime went to his daughters phone then every phone call, text and FaceTime would but I’ve just seen your second update.. I would block him now.
Take the power into your own hands and unmatch him or block him to put a dent in his ego, because if you don’t he’ll still feel in control. Agree with above, he’s one of those who think the bare minimum is high maintenance - you deserve better!I'm going to leave it now, I sent him a message just after 10 saying about facetime later, the app is saying he was on line 25 mins ago so he's read my message and not replied...another time wasting waste of time!
Lol update turns out he has a girlfriend but they're not in a good place.This is really long I'm so sorry about that.
I've been texting a co worker pretty much non stop since Friday night. We work on the same team but different departments.
Friday night after a team event we took a train home together (it wasn't just us two, there were four of us) and he would NOT shut up about the cat. I was placating him a little throughout the journey home.
At the dinner I was talking about the drinks I was having last night for my birthday, he was in the group and said "oh sweet, text me about it"
So I was like "cool, I'll ask John* for your number and send it on" then John was like "you know he's right here, you can just have his number right now yeah?" So Tom* put his number in my phone and said "call me there" so he would have mine.
He initiated the contact Friday night saying about the cat and it's kinda gone from there.
And it's not anything too "I wanna put my dick in u" explicit but there's also been some deep messages like about his parents divorce and that life is messing him up/has messed him up a bit (no details but given some of what he's said, I'm imagining a break up of some kind) and how he's in a bit of a low and he's gonna start therapy, and like. . . .things you don't talk about with a normal Co worker?
Or in such frequency? Cos don't get me wrong. I love the other guys on my team to pieces. But we rarely text outside work. The only co-worker I regularly text outside work is someone with whom I make a lot of plans and travel on day trips with. My mind is like "he wouldn't message so much if he wasn't into you in some way?" And I'm into him in a big way.
But also he has showed me his cat. A lot. She's a good girl.
There's never been anything explicitly flirty, but things like making some kind of way to see each other, like me cooking lasagne or him offering to help with furniture if I move, or a round of shots to see which of us can best represent our country (I'm Irish, he's Australian.)
If it helps, I am 90 pc sure he is single. I asked "You said you don't live alone? How do your housemates feel about Indy (the cat)"
"Long story. Tell you someday"
Which is giving me "we broke up but still live together" vibes. You know?
TL;DR a co worker and I have been in pretty constant contact, and I don't know whether it's because he's interested or just as friends.
I’m losing the will to live with these menLol update turns out he has a girlfriend but they're not in a good place.
Same. I despair.I’m losing the will to live with these men
I literally read that and thought the same thing! Some horror stories are coming out today!I’m losing the will to live with these men
so that was the “long story, tell you someday”?!?Lol update turns out he has a girlfriend but they're not in a good place.
Not worth the wait imoso that was the “long story, tell you someday”?!?
MEN. wtf
I said this to my friend! I am SICK of all the appsDo you think meeting the old fashioned way will make a comeback as we all get sick of the apps? I live in hope I'll bump into some hottie in Sainsburys
It's true, and I am too. Can't even watch a video or some TV without my phone open. I fucking hate it, but I am too addicted to the dopamine.People are glued to their phones when they are out and about.
Me too.. I was thinking about it earlier actually. I’d love to detox from it but everyone is as badIt's true, and I am too. Can't even watch a video or some TV without my phone open. I fucking hate it, but I am too addicted to the dopamine.
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