The best piece of advice I can give girls is stop fixating and checking when people are online
I know only too well the gut wrenching moment when you see them online, not read your message, been left on blue ticks - you will drive yourself mad.
Turn your read receipts off and stop looking at their chat. I know it’s annoying when you’re trying to make concrete plans (and
@al255 this isn’t aimed specifically at you!) I’ve seen a lot in the last couple threads saying “well he’s been online and not messaged me.” Save yourself the agony and just don’t look. I don’t look or even think about it anymore, same as I forbid myself from looking on social media.
It’s advice for no other reason than for your own sanity!