@Belle123 That does sound awfully familiar. I also think us women are far more level headed than men give us for. It’s like they walk themselves into the
crappy situations instead of just talking about it, even if it’s to say they need space.
I think having a back and forth today was definitely a good thing. Especially if he was engaged and didn’t leave you hanging after you replied!
Mine struggles to believe that all I want is loyalty, kindness and respect. Of course there are tangents that come off those things, eg respect might mean taking the initiative to plan time together. But ultimately when I do have time to spend with him, I want to be able to enjoy it for what it is when it’s at its best.
I might set a time limit on it. I’m in this place where I love him because he’s a great person, but I’m not in love with him yet and I don’t want to set myself up for unnecessary heartache.