I don’t specialise in geriatrics but the physical force required to break that many ribs and the resulting compromised chest cavity would have caused additional significant injuries. A fall would generally see ribs 7-10 affected. These sound like car crash/extreme sports type injuries, not something you’d see in an elderly patient. I’m just not buying it but I feel terrible for calling him a liar all the same
I'm honestly not sure what to make of it all tbh, his message said 8 broken ribs and a dislocated shoulder. He said she had a fall in his message last night but no how she had done it...The flakey behaviour before the 1st date that didn't happen has given me cause to doubt him, and for someone I've yet to meet it's all too much drama. It's ok if he's changed his mind , although no indications of that on our chats, I'm not a horrible person and would hope he knows that from chatting to me . Some people just struggle to be honest and resort to lies, I'd hate to think he's lying but who knows! He added me to his Instagram btw so he's who he says he is ( I think!) but again only he knows the truth!I don’t specialise in geriatrics but the physical force required to break that many ribs and the resulting compromised chest cavity would have caused additional significant injuries. A fall would generally see ribs 7-10 affected. These sound like car crash/extreme sports type injuries, not something you’d see in an elderly patient. I’m just not buying it but I feel terrible for calling him a liar all the same
: Good Morning.. hope you're well and ok xx: So Nan has just been moved to the ward an hour ago.. 8 broken ribs and fractured right shoulder.. mri being delayed too x: Standard procedure as I spoke to them as they found a bleed on the lung..I'm seeing her tomorrow afternoon I hope you're ok and having a nice day xxWhere there's a will there's a way! That's the conversation with him today! Hope that's OK to post like this as I can't screenshotI'm honestly not sure what to make of it all tbh, his message said 8 broken ribs and a dislocated shoulder. He said she had a fall in his message last night but no how she had done it...The flakey behaviour before the 1st date that didn't happen has given me cause to doubt him, and for someone I've yet to meet it's all too much drama. It's ok if he's changed his mind , although no indications of that on our chats, I'm not a horrible person and would hope he knows that from chatting to me . Some people just struggle to be honest and resort to lies, I'd hate to think he's lying but who knows! He added me to his Instagram btw so he's who he says he is ( I think!) but again only he knows the truth!
Standard procedure as I spoke to them as they found a bleed on the lung..I'm seeing her tomorrow afternoon I hope you're ok and having a nice day xx
I can't screen shot so I've copied and pasted the message he just sent on WhatsApp!
[08/03, 08:20] Morning
[08/03, 08:21] Mike
[08/03, 08:23] All good here, how are you and how's your Nan ?
[08/03, 08:24] Mike
[08/03, 08:26] Wow she really did fall hard, bless her. What's the mri for ?
[08/03, 16:43] Mike
. I'm beginning to think I am just not made for dating. I don't find many of them attractive. I want a nice hipster looking fella with a great head of hair, doesn't smoke weed, isn't in a polyamorous relationship but is emotionally available. Is that asking for too much?
That's exactly what he's done yes. Tomorrow was supposed to be our coffee date. I've not responded to his message as I'm not sure what to say tbh.Is that the ‘tomorrow afternoon’ that he would have been seeing you? Has he even acknowledged that you had plans tomorrow and cancelled them properly / apologised for not being able to make it? Or is he just assuming you’ll make the link yourself and spare him having to confirm that he’s flaking out?
Urgh! He needs to just address it. Why are they incapable of communication?
same! i’m very wary of giving someone that much “access” (for want of a better word) to me and my life before i’ve even met them in person.I always find it weird when people want you on their social media without meeting
i don’t find anyone of them attractive, if they text too much i find it too full-on and clingy, if they don’t text enough then i think they’re too casual and disinterested. i am never happy don’t respond, archive the chat. he knew tomorrow were your plans, and he knows he has no intention of going but was too cowardly to tell you so used poor nan as an excuse. he doesn’t deserve anymore of your time - why didn’t he just come out and cancel or say he couldn’t make it?! and this is the second time!
I would just say “sorry to hear that, I know we had a date pencilled in so assume that doesn’t work for you anymore. Drop me a message when you’re more free and still fancy a drink”. Or something like that. Put the ball in his court and just leave it. You’re not there to be his shoulder to cry on or someone to mindlessly chat to all day.
I've archived him and Mr5'7!same! i’m very wary of giving someone that much “access” (for want of a better word) to me and my life before i’ve even met them in person.
i’m starting to think i’m not cut out for it either
don’t respond, archive the chat. he knew tomorrow were your plans, and he knows he has no intention of going but was too cowardly to tell you so used poor nan as an excuse. he doesn’t deserve anymore of your time - why didn’t he just come out and cancel or say he couldn’t make it?! and this is the second time!
well done! Set your location to Mile End and you’ll probably find oneI always find it weird when people want you on their social media without meeting
no word of a lie I have a friend of a friend who wanted a super tall, blonde Swedish looking man. So she set her location to Sweden (this was back when tinder was new so not sure if you can do this anymore). It worked!6 hours is a bit of a long drive for a dateSet your location to Mile End and you’ll probably find one
This is my problem, I live in a small city where most men wear tracksuits everywhere and the other options are: they look inbred/ridiculous steroid muscles, cross dressers or hillbillies. I think I need to moveyep - the times that i’ve been to major cities and had a nose on tinder i’ve been amazed by the calibre and quality of the men.
only tinder and bumble for me!Can we have a summary of what dating apps people are using ?I've only got Tinder on the go
Just bumble x
