Thank you - this was my inkling as well to be honest.
I thought the same thing. Where would this walk end up? At his house probably!
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i’m with @NoseyNiamh and @Raymond Luxury-Yacht here; bad vibes all over the place. he’s making absolutely no effort and the “come over my house” for a first date speaks volumes about what he’s looking for sadly.
It really does help me to ask other people because I usually ignore things like this and think that I should not write them off but it always ends badly.
It looks like I should give this one a miss!
It looks like I should give this one a miss!
Yes to all this and I'd put money he's not single!!!
Yes, I think there are a lot of people pretending to be single on online dating tbh.
Now I’ve more context, I’d run a mile from this guy. Sure the happy walkers will now say the same! Seriously, the duck does he think he is! Block him
In my experience for defo. I even had one bloke say tit like…’aww this is where our first kiss will be bla bla’
Ghosted after a crap morning bag after him pestering me all night. I was too tired to say no for the billionth time. But yeah, I know, I shouldn’t have let him stay over….in hindsigt, he was defo married. All the traits were there. I felt like such a fool.
You take care darling and sound things out with us if you need. I’m not autistic, I do have BPD and other tit going on so this board has been an absolute pillar of strength for me.
Flipping hell. First dates the guy should be out to impress you, that’s so rubbish of him. I’m glad you’ve decided against meeting him
I agree. This feels iffy. I could understand meeting for a coffee somewhere public then going for a walk around the place to extend the date and keep chatting, but everything you’ve said gives off icky vibes. He’s not after anything serious. Abort!
I literally don’t care but if I’m basically the same height as you in my shoes then you’re not 6ft mate.
Hi Gang! Cor catching up on this since I last posted is interesting. I’ve tried to keep up but yes I remember all the other threads and pop ups people. I did get some good advice from them so no bad words on my side but who has enough emails to create that many tattle accounts 
I’m exhausted with the one.
ok
(nah I can’t imagine having ok at the end of everything it would stress me out)
I’m exhausted with the one.ok
(nah I can’t imagine having ok at the end of everything it would stress me out)I completely agree however it now seems Just trying to go on a first date or get the first date booked and it’s something suitable is a pandemic in itself!!
This 100000%. If a guy is not trying to impress or acting like a gentleman to you during the first dates, he never will! I learned this the hard way.
I might be being melodramatic but I just think I need to move to another area of the country, the area I am in has no decent ‘gents’
i’ll move with you, where are we going?!I might be being melodramatic but I just think I need to move to another area of the country, the area I am in has no decent ‘gents’
south wales has been officially drained of all its suitable men, judging by the calibre on the apps around here.
I’ve been discussing cooking and household chores with the guy I’m texting, I said I hated doing the dishes, he said he hated it too and if we do ever get together we will just use disposable tableware Not very eco-friendly but what a gent!
Not very eco-friendly but what a gent!
I’m near Glasgow and feel the same! I’m not actively looking but can guarantee if I did nothing would’ve changed.
How about the South West? Or Norfolk? Somewhere with a beachi’ll move with you, where are we going?!
south wales has been officially drained of all its suitable men, judging by the calibre on the apps around here.
south west sounds amazing, i’m inHow about the South West? Or Norfolk? Somewhere with a beach
we can have a tattle air bnb: all welcome!
Can we have an international branch?! Always fancied myself a nice tall, super cool Scandinavian man.south west sounds amazing, i’m in
we can have a tattle air bnb: all welcome!
yes!! i have literally never met an unattractive swedish guy (and spent my entire trip to stockholm with heart eyes tbh) so let’s do it. we don’t discriminate here at tattle dating hq.
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