Dating after lockdown #13 Halloween the ghost(er)s favourite season 🎃

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BunnyLebowski

Ok gang, I’m home…omg…I’m not used to this. I‘m almost feeling a bit rejected because he’s not my usual bastard type and didn’t try to drag me back to his. But I know those are my demons.

He was utterly adorable…insisted on paying for dinner, so sweet and kind….a bit hyper as in excited. Kept reaching for my hand. We’re going for a dog walk on Sunday and then a roast. Fucking hell i hope I’m not jinxed on the fucking roast.

He texted me before I even got home to check I got home safely…I honestly can’t believe it. We have so much in common. If anything, thanks to my therapy and you gang, (even the brutal posters) , I had my guard up and my boundaries so robust..I like him a lot.

I’m home tomorrow watching Strictly and chilling so chat tomoz. I You guys xx
 
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NoseyNiamh

I was dying to hear how you got on. Sounds so nice, you deserve this.
No comment on the roast
 
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newtoyou

Glad you had a good time! Are you still pursuing something with pension guy?
 

BunnyLebowski

newtoyou said:
Glad you had a good time! Are you still pursuing something with pension guy?
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Which one is pension guy? The handsome bloke who I thought was after my pension? If so, no I’m not. He had a funny voice on the phone and I decided to trust my gut. So glad I did or I may not have met this boy…let’s call him D.

Anyway. D did mention how he was looking forward to coming off the Apps and how he didn’t do multiple dating. Fucking can’t believe it.
 
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sugarytea

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If they're always wearing a hat in their photos I just assume they're bald
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Oh for sure, they're 110% bald or they've got a barely there hairline. Its just jokes bc they really think they're smarter than us & we won't catch on lol
 
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NoseyNiamh

sugarytea said:
Oh for sure, they're 110% bald or they've got a barely there hairline. Its just jokes bc they really think they're smarter than us & we won't catch on lol
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Or maybe they are conscious of their hair loss and feel more comfortable wearing a hat.
 
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Clairer86

Aww Bunny, i know im not a frequent poster on here but i love reading your posts. I know from what you have previously said, that we share some qualities (in that we both have bpd and are fucking awesome!). I promise im not a stalker but your posts really resonate with me at times
 
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NoseyNiamh

Thank(space)you said:
That's not exactly true. She's happy in herself and moving anyway from any environments that don't match her vibe anymore, tattle being one of them.
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Thanks for clarifying, I was going back through the thread trying to figure out what upset her.
I'm glad she is in a good place
 
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Clickbait

Thank(space)you said:
That's not exactly true. She's happy in herself and moving anyway from any environments that don't match her vibe anymore, tattle being one of them.
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That is a real shame but glad she’s much happier than she was a few months ago. I would say she is a success story of this thread and helped point others towards resources that she found useful.
 
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whathastheworldcometo

I have a date tonight But I can already kind of tell that I won't fancy him I hope it will still be an interesting evening though, we will be meeting for a couple of drinks at a wine bar near my place.

The guy that now moved has contacted me to propose to meet when he is back for a few days (for work reasons). I told him that this is not going to happen - I would not feel comfortable with him coming to see me (for sex) whenever he is in town. No thank you.
He was surprised and disappointed.

Then I was also chatting to a couple of guys on Bumble that I thought were quite cute - but it is hard going, they don't text as frequently as the less interesting guys. Why is that?
I don't want to seem too keen but don't know how to keep the communication going without coming across like that?
What do I do - any ideas?
 
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