I’m sure you’re more than that! I think seeing an insta is still unreliable. I would try to arrange something on Facetime
I’m sure you’re more than that! I think seeing an insta is still unreliable. I would try to arrange something on FacetimeTrue but I’m average looking and he looks like a modelso that’s why I’m suspecting something is off
I don't think there's anything unusual about thisIs it bad manners/seen as weird to ask to add someone on Instagram before actually meeting IRL? Guy from one of the apps is being quite forthcoming with trying to arrange a date (only matched at the weekend). Seems “too good to be true”. I am worried it’s a catfish or worse someone that will kidnap meOf course I’d only meet in a public place etc etc
Ladies, you remember I posted this, here he is…You just reminded me of a time I went on a date with a guy who was recently divorced, wore Gucci trainers, had already had a hair transplant but was about to have another. We didn’t click at all but he was still on my IG, he then went onto sell his house, move to Aus, made various misogynistic comments about women on Instagram (including taking a photo of someone on a train) and has now come back to the UK now. If he comes up I will post a pic on here with face covered you can all avoid.
Oasis should be a red flag if nothing elseLadies, you remember I posted this, here he is…
avoid avoid avoid
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Also, random but I still talk to an old colleague on a professional social network every now and then and part of me grew fond of him, but I don’t ever want to approach him as I don’t think he felt it back. Also I’d hate him to think I was flirting with him whilst I was working with him. What would you do?
Lol at his age being wrong and holding a bottle of champagne to pose tooOasis should be a red flag if nothing else
Hey @BunnyLebowski I'm really great at the minute, thanks for checking in with me.
Somethings are just good manners. It’s better to give than receive and all that.That’s shit. Is it a generational thing? I’m late 40’s but the vast majority of my partners since my divorce (I was 41 then, I’m 47 now), understand they have to go down on me first until I cum as their willy is unlikely to do it on a first time sesh. The few who haven’t, I’ve not been back for a round 2.
This is of a sample of about 12, I’d say 9 did oral on me before penetration and 3 who didn’t. They turned out to be fuk-boys anyway. It’s important to me that a man loves to go down on me. If he’s not into it…sorry…..next!
I good thanks. No fun stories so far, but I do have a lunchtime dog walking date tomorrow with a bloke who seems very nice. Tall, attractive, lovely dog. He gave up working in the city to start his own company dealing with ethical waste clearance and avoiding landfill from construction sites. As I’m NHS that is very much up my street. I don’t to bling n all that!Hey @BunnyLebowski I'm really great at the minute, thanks for checking in with me.
How are you? Any fun stories ?
Oasis is one of my favourite bands but I must admit most men liking them can be somewhat questionableOasis should be a red flag if nothing else
You can either tell him you're not free & not explain yourself.I’ve been asked if I’m free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as he’s not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I don’t like going on dates after work. I’m not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
I’d just say something likeI’ve been asked if I’m free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as he’s not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I don’t like going on dates after work. I’m not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
I’d just say something likeI’ve been asked if I’m free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as he’s not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I don’t like going on dates after work. I’m not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
Don’t do what I just did.I’ve been asked if I’m free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as he’s not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I don’t like going on dates after work. I’m not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
If you're keen on meeting him just say you're really busy at work at the moment and don't want to commit to something when you know you could be asked at last minute to work later etc.I’ve been asked if I’m free tomorrow night after work to meet someone (it suits him as he’s not working) how do I say no without making up some silly, obvious excuse that I don’t like going on dates after work. I’m not the best version of myself by the end of the day after work
I've been checking in to see if there's any updates yet.Interested for an update on @BunnyLebowski ‘s lunchtime date. It sounded promising. I’ve kept my fingers crossed he’s not a hobbit with dirty nails and he has a pension fund!
@BunnyLebowski absolutely delighted for you.Oh my God….gang…..oh my fucking God. I need to thank the old bitch off here who kept telling us off and banging on about how we need to learn to love ourselves bla bla bla.
So I had no high hopes, very jaded etc…. Met this bloke today in a kind of ‘couldn’t give a shit attitude’.…wearing leggings, dog walking boots, rough nail varnish…as in totally me. ( I can pull this look off, as I have great legs and I’m a bit of an aging surfer chick type…but it’s an acquired taste and I have noticed disappointment before on my lack of grooming shall we say).
This fucking god of a man walks up…we have instant chemistry although play it cool with each other. Ok he’s not everyone’s cup of tea. But perfect for me. A bit of rough…but well educated and intelligent. He’s 51 and quit his career in the city to start his own business doing ethical waste clearance. Right up my street.
He’s in his work gear all dirty and massive and manly… and a bit like ‘ this is me…I make no apologies’.…. I’m like ‘ ‘well this is me….’!
We walk and talk, have a cup of tea…our dogs get on…actually his dog loves me and sat under my legs when we were having tea. It was so unsustainable to find someone as unusual / odd as me but so compatible.
Anyway, we are going on another walk on Sunday but this time a proper long walk on the southdowns.
Oh and by the way, to whomever mentioned the pension…he started by tentatively asking if I rented….I was like NO! And I’ve nearly cleared my mortgage…how about you? He said…and I kid you not…. I’ve nearly paid off the mortgage to my house too…I also own the flat underneath me which is my PENSION!!!
BOOM gang!
Babe….I love you so much. You have a room in my house in Brighton anytime you like.@BunnyLebowski absolutely delighted for you.
I throughly enjoyed reading your post.
He sounds perfect for you.
Will you please do me a favour though, if you stop off for lunch on Sunday, stay away from the bloody Roasts , have a nice carbonara or something
Ok I had a very specific image of you in my head and it defo wasn’t “ageing surfer” with a “lack of grooming”Oh my God….gang…..oh my fucking God. I need to thank the old bitch off here who kept telling us off and banging on about how we need to learn to love ourselves bla bla bla.
So I had no high hopes, very jaded etc…. Met this bloke today in a kind of ‘couldn’t give a shit attitude’.…wearing leggings, dog walking boots, rough nail varnish…as in totally me. ( I can pull this look off, as I have great legs and I’m a bit of an aging surfer chick type…but it’s an acquired taste and I have noticed disappointment before on my lack of grooming shall we say).
This fucking god of a man walks up…we have instant chemistry although play it cool with each other. Ok he’s not everyone’s cup of tea. But perfect for me. A bit of rough…but well educated and intelligent. He’s 51 and quit his career in the city to start his own business doing ethical waste clearance. Right up my street.
He’s in his work gear all dirty and massive and manly… and a bit like ‘ this is me…I make no apologies’.…. I’m like ‘ ‘well this is me….’!
We walk and talk, have a cup of tea…our dogs get on…actually his dog loves me and sat under my legs when we were having tea. It was so unsustainable to find someone as unusual / odd as me but so compatible.
Anyway, we are going on another walk on Sunday but this time a proper long walk on the southdowns.
Oh and by the way, to whomever mentioned the pension…he started by tentatively asking if I rented….I was like NO! And I’ve nearly cleared my mortgage…how about you? He said…and I kid you not…. I’ve nearly paid off the mortgage to my house too…I also own the flat underneath me which is my PENSION!!!
BOOM gang!
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