Dating after lockdown #13 Halloween the ghost(er)s favourite season 🎃

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Haha! I just always feel bad asking a guy to do it as I imagine it’s probably quite a gross thing for them to do That’s just my own insecurity I suppose as like many have said a lot of guys actually enjoy it.
It's no more gross than you going down on them, but that seems to be a given for most guys.
 
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Gross? Nah. They go mad for it.
Exactly. It’s not gross at all, most men would give their right arm to get their face in between the knicker lace. if they’re one of the rare few that don’t like it, they not for me. Don’t settle for a life without it. Even with my ex husband I got it every single time before penetration.
 
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I do too, I love it when he says get on my face
 
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My friend has asked me on a date. I've accepted, and I'm trying not to overthink it. My worry is I don't want things to mess up and we lose the friendship (we've been friends for 11ish years)


Also, a guy I fucked years ago (we fancied each other but the sex wasn't great tbh) from my old job, randomly got into contact with me tonight and we're gonna go for lunch tomorrow during lunch break.
 
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Good luck. I have a similar thing with a friend. I can’t work out if we’re not together because we’re ultimately unsuitable or if it’s because I have been conditioned to fancy inappropriate men so can’t get excited about someone who would be ‘good‘ for me.

I’m going on a random lunchtime dog walk with a bloke off Bumble on Tuesday. Report back guys!

Btw, I did once shag my friend and it didn’t ruin the friendship. If anything we’re much closer because that tension is out of the way.
 
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How do you respond when post-date a guy tells you that you’re the whole package and that he’s surprised you’re still single?
Is it supposed to be a compliment albeit badly phrased?
 
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How do you respond when post-date a guy tells you that you’re the whole package and that he’s surprised you’re still single?
Is it supposed to be a compliment albeit badly phrased?
"Thank you, I'm just taking my time to find someone worth it"
 
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How do you respond when post-date a guy tells you that you’re the whole package and that he’s surprised you’re still single?
Is it supposed to be a compliment albeit badly phrased?
that feels like the most subtle of negs to me but I think I’m just jaded. I don’t like the implication that being single is a fault/you had no choice in the matter.
I’d just say ‘yea but my company’s the best so…’
 
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I had my postponed first date with the guy I was supposed to go out with on Monday yesterday. We both live in the same apartment building which I was already aware of, but when we were sat talking we figured out he lives in the flat directly opposite me Sooo weird how I have never seen him before! Was equally as strange when the date ended and we were up the lift and down the corridor together. He was really nice though, we've said we'll go out again
 
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So I messaged my lunch date (loose term of the word) at 1 asking where he was. He messaged saying he's had to deal with a case @ work (he's not working today) I just said OK and now I'm enjoying my lunch. Girls gotta eat and I'm genuinely not bothered about it, which is definitely a sign of progress. I know I've not done anything wrong and he's not worth the time
 
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Is it bad manners/seen as weird to ask to add someone on Instagram before actually meeting IRL? Guy from one of the apps is being quite forthcoming with trying to arrange a date (only matched at the weekend). Seems “too good to be true”. I am worried it’s a catfish or worse someone that will kidnap me Of course I’d only meet in a public place etc etc
 
Most of the men I've slept with recently have been obsessed with giving oral. I'm not fussed about it really, I'd rather give than receive but if they want to, then crack on.

Very recently I was with a guy and he wasn't even interested in penetrative sex, he just wanted to get me off. It was oddly anxiety inducing that he cared so much .
 
How do you respond when post-date a guy tells you that you’re the whole package and that he’s surprised you’re still single?
Is it supposed to be a compliment albeit badly phrased?
I must have heard this 1000 times I would take it with a pinch of salt after a first date or in the talking stage. They are often full of it in the early days.

I was single because I couldn’t be arsed to give them the time of day which they would soon find out
 
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He might think you’re a catfish and want to see you IRL / not waste time chatting
 
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True but I’m average looking and he looks like a model so that’s why I’m suspecting something is off
We are attracted to who we are attracted to. You may be 'average looking' to one person but to another you are massively attractive.

And average looking can be and is attractive.

I feel like discussing what average looking even means. Nobody is really ugly.
 
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