Even if he misses you, what's the point, he's not around so you can't pursue anything.
Plus if you ask, he probably will say yes as this will make you stick around. I know all the tricks in the book.
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Plus if you ask, he probably will say yes as this will make you stick around. I know all the tricks in the book.
Well ..
There is one at 1pm and 7pm today UK time (a masterclass with Persia and she is a bit brilliant lol) if you want to join:
Also, as Niamh said above what's the point in knowing that? It will just keep you attached to someone that isn't fulfilling your needs. It's time to cut that chord and release him. If it's meant to be in the future then it will be but yeah time to say bye bye
Well I imagine he likes the attention you give him as much as you seem to enjoy the attention he gives you ! Clearly whatever game he is playing you are an active and willing participant too !
If you genuinely want answers to your questions ask him, but I'm puzzled as to what you will do with that information once he answers in the way you are hoping he will ?
Sometimes we have to be accountable in our behaviour and not play the games that some men will drag us into ! Don't get me wrong I love to have my ego stroked as well as the next woman but I really try not to waste my time with men that blatantly have no respect for me and are texting out of boredom or as part of a weird game!
After my semi breakdown this weekend, I'm feeling great.
I was talking to a guy on Bumble over the weekend. He's hot! The chat has got flirty and sex was mentioned a few times. Normally I end these kind of chats very quickly but I am enjoying this.
I assume I just have to take it at face value and it is just a bit of fun he is looking for? Given my current frame of mind, this would suit me.
I was talking to a guy on Bumble over the weekend. He's hot! The chat has got flirty and sex was mentioned a few times. Normally I end these kind of chats very quickly but I am enjoying this.
I assume I just have to take it at face value and it is just a bit of fun he is looking for? Given my current frame of mind, this would suit me.
Oh my bleeping god guysā¦..last night I went on a date with a man who looked like a normal kind man in his profile. He worked as helping reform young offendersā¦.all good so I thought.
He was a complete bleeping prick. An INCEL! He actually saidā¦the problem with society is feminism as it teaches women to be men and men to be women. Dick. He also blamed single mothers for the amount of young offendersā¦.I was like NO, donāt you think some of the blame should go to the dads that fucked off. I then said. Anyway, I am a feminist, leaning towards the radical endā¦so weāre not going to get on. And I upped and left!
Small victory was that I was looking hot and I could tell he fancied me like mad! Hahahaā¦.LOSER!
He was a complete bleeping prick. An INCEL! He actually saidā¦the problem with society is feminism as it teaches women to be men and men to be women. Dick. He also blamed single mothers for the amount of young offendersā¦.I was like NO, donāt you think some of the blame should go to the dads that fucked off. I then said. Anyway, I am a feminist, leaning towards the radical endā¦so weāre not going to get on. And I upped and left!
Small victory was that I was looking hot and I could tell he fancied me like mad! Hahahaā¦.LOSER!
He definitely would have wanted you to wear a strap on!!Oh my bleeping god guysā¦..last night I went on a date with a man who looked like a normal kind man in his profile. He worked as helping reform young offendersā¦.all good so I thought.
He was a complete bleeping prick. An INCEL! He actually saidā¦the problem with society is feminism as it teaches women to be men and men to be women. Dick. He also blamed single mothers for the amount of young offendersā¦.I was like NO, donāt you think some of the blame should go to the dads that fucked off. I then said. Anyway, I am a feminist, leaning towards the radical endā¦so weāre not going to get on. And I upped and left!
Small victory was that I was looking hot and I could tell he fancied me like mad! Hahahaā¦.LOSER!
I think itās worrying if heās infecting these young menās minds with that nonsense: āDonāt worry son, youāre not at fault for your crime, itās your mumās fault. Sheās tried to be a father figure and failed because she is not a man. Men are supreme beings, women are less than men.āOh my bleeping god guysā¦..last night I went on a date with a man who looked like a normal kind man in his profile. He worked as helping reform young offendersā¦.all good so I thought.
He was a complete bleeping prick. An INCEL! He actually saidā¦the problem with society is feminism as it teaches women to be men and men to be women. Dick. He also blamed single mothers for the amount of young offendersā¦.I was like NO, donāt you think some of the blame should go to the dads that fucked off. I then said. Anyway, I am a feminist, leaning towards the radical endā¦so weāre not going to get on. And I upped and left!
Small victory was that I was looking hot and I could tell he fancied me like mad! Hahahaā¦.LOSER!
Bunny was this a total shocker or did he give any clues away first? How quickly did you meet him from first chat to date? Absolutely not blaming you for the fact heās a head, but wondered if you might be able to weed some of these ones out with a bit more chat/tactical conversation?
It was a total shocker. His profile was quite limited but he was 53 years old and seemed niceā¦no red flags. The only thing I can say that was potentially dodgey was that we only chatted on bumble for a bit, before he suggested meeting, as he wasnāt a great texter. He suggested a nice pop-up bar local to me that also did food. I was looking forward to maybe making a new friendā¦.how wrong I was.
But yes, hugely worrying that he is poisoning young minds with his anti-woman rhetoric. I would report him but I donāt have his surname or even his bleeping phone numberā¦..actually that is a bleeping red flag right there. I put it down to him being old school and a bit of a technophobe.
It was 10 days from first chat to date but with no chat in between first chat and date bar arranging the location.
That's effing appalling. Holy tit. How did the topic come up?Oh my bleeping god guysā¦..last night I went on a date with a man who looked like a normal kind man in his profile. He worked as helping reform young offendersā¦.all good so I thought.
He was a complete bleeping prick. An INCEL! He actually saidā¦the problem with society is feminism as it teaches women to be men and men to be women. Dick. He also blamed single mothers for the amount of young offendersā¦.I was like NO, donāt you think some of the blame should go to the dads that fucked off. I then said. Anyway, I am a feminist, leaning towards the radical endā¦so weāre not going to get on. And I upped and left!
Small victory was that I was looking hot and I could tell he fancied me like mad! Hahahaā¦.LOSER!
Also you're my hero for that exit
Never mind, he deleted his account
Hahahahahakillmehahaha
These men often appear again and again. Makes me think theyāre using it for an ego boost or their partner is away for the weekend and theyāre taking advantage. Otherwise I donāt understand why if you felt it was time to delete the app youād not want to keep chatting to someone even via email if you werenāt sure you wanted to swap phone numbers.
Such silly behaviour, if you don't want to talk to someone just unmatched, no need to be dramatic and delete the profile.
The last message exchange I suggested WhatsApp and he deleted it shortly after that. So I'm guessing he was either catfishing me or he had a partner.
Our messages were not explicit and I didn't exchange any pics, so I'm not that bothered.
I do think I would like a bit of a fling though. Just a temporary distraction were both parties are OK with it.
I knowErrr.... he was being a perv!!!
It was a particularly stupid method of perving. It amazes me how they can turn every topic into sex
Waaah I have such a weird situation!
I had a date arranged with a guy this evening, weāve been speaking today but the conversation ended like this. (For context weāve realised we both live in the same apartment building, but Iām not wildly taken aback by how itās ran and I also didnāt want to steal the tv stand to take to my new house)
How confusing! I know i couldāve messaged and asked what time or where etc, but I am not going to because I think itās common courtesy if you invite someone out, that you do that part. It doesnāt matter to me if we donāt speak again, I guess Iām just posting to say is this normal behaviour?
Iām annoyed because Iāve been out of the house all day at work and then I was dealing with a gas issue at my new house and I still managed to come back home and put a bit of make up on. I also didnāt buy any food because we were meant to go for a meal so now Iāve just sat eating beans on toast with my full face of slap on
I had a date arranged with a guy this evening, weāve been speaking today but the conversation ended like this. (For context weāve realised we both live in the same apartment building, but Iām not wildly taken aback by how itās ran and I also didnāt want to steal the tv stand to take to my new house)
How confusing! I know i couldāve messaged and asked what time or where etc, but I am not going to because I think itās common courtesy if you invite someone out, that you do that part. It doesnāt matter to me if we donāt speak again, I guess Iām just posting to say is this normal behaviour?
Iām annoyed because Iāve been out of the house all day at work and then I was dealing with a gas issue at my new house and I still managed to come back home and put a bit of make up on. I also didnāt buy any food because we were meant to go for a meal so now Iāve just sat eating beans on toast with my full face of slap on
There's something odd about that... almost accusatory saying "just picking holes in everything"..... just it's something that would come up whenever there was an argument like its your fault? I may be reading it wrong but...Waaah I have such a weird situation!
I had a date arranged with a guy this evening, weāve been speaking today but the conversation ended like this. (For context weāve realised we both live in the same apartment building, but Iām not wildly taken aback by how itās ran and I also didnāt want to steal the tv stand to take to my new house)
How confusing! I know i couldāve messaged and asked what time or where etc, but I am not going to because I think itās common courtesy if you invite someone out, that you do that part. It doesnāt matter to me if we donāt speak again, I guess Iām just posting to say is this normal behaviour?
Iām annoyed because Iāve been out of the house all day at work and then I was dealing with a gas issue at my new house and I still managed to come back home and put a bit of make up on. I also didnāt buy any food because we were meant to go for a meal so now Iāve just sat eating beans on toast with my full face of slap on
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As someone who loves logistics and having a concrete plan, whoās dating someone the COMPLETE oppositeā¦.I feel your pain! Itās so infuriating sat wondering what/when youāre going somewhere. Has he been in touch yet?Waaah I have such a weird situation!
I had a date arranged with a guy this evening, weāve been speaking today but the conversation ended like this. (For context weāve realised we both live in the same apartment building, but Iām not wildly taken aback by how itās ran and I also didnāt want to steal the tv stand to take to my new house)
How confusing! I know i couldāve messaged and asked what time or where etc, but I am not going to because I think itās common courtesy if you invite someone out, that you do that part. It doesnāt matter to me if we donāt speak again, I guess Iām just posting to say is this normal behaviour?
Iām annoyed because Iāve been out of the house all day at work and then I was dealing with a gas issue at my new house and I still managed to come back home and put a bit of make up on. I also didnāt buy any food because we were meant to go for a meal so now Iāve just sat eating beans on toast with my full face of slap on
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What Iāve realised is some people genuinely donāt think like I do. Sometimes youāve got to spell it out to people. Iād just ask if I were you (and you havenāt heard yet) even if you say, just planning logistics for this evening, what time are we meeting?
I donāt know how people get by without a plan
Iām the kind of person who likes to know what when and where as early as possible let us know if he gets in touch!!
Thats kind of what I thought too, but I was like am I reading too much into it
he also sent the attached before he said that.Also i havent just sat slagging the place off, only given my opinion when itās the topic of conversation. When I moved in there was a moth infestation, I canāt close the blinds in my living room because some are missing, one of my windows is locked shut because itās dangerous, the toilet leaked under the tiles for months. I think itād be a bit weird if I was like omg dream home
I havenāt even gone in to that much detail on what was wrong with it when I moved in I just said I wasnāt impressed 
He still hasnāt! So so weird. I need to know a plan too it makes me happy and I can finish off the other 1000 things I have to do in the day in time that way. I wonāt go even if he says now, Iām going to have a brandy and an early nightAs someone who loves logistics and having a concrete plan, whoās dating someone the COMPLETE oppositeā¦.I feel your pain! Itās so infuriating sat wondering what/when youāre going somewhere. Has he been in touch yet?
What Iāve realised is some people genuinely donāt think like I do. Sometimes youāve got to spell it out to people. Iād just ask if I were you (and you havenāt heard yet) even if you say, just planning logistics for this evening, what time are we meeting?
I donāt know how people get by without a plan
let us know if he gets in touch!!
I feel like one of the ālosersā on dinner date who donāt get picked for the real date and have a ready meal delivered to their door I think you're a winner in this situation it just smells off to me. The universe is doing you a favour here so run with it!Thats kind of what I thought too, but I was like am I reading too much into it
Also i havent just sat slagging the place off, only given my opinion when itās the topic of conversation. When I moved in there was a moth infestation, I canāt close the blinds in my living room because some are missing, one of my windows is locked shut because itās dangerous, the toilet leaked under the tiles for months. I think itād be a bit weird if I was like omg dream home
He still hasnāt! So so weird. I need to know a plan too it makes me happy and I can finish off the other 1000 things I have to do in the day in time that way. I wonāt go even if he says now, Iām going to have a brandy and an early night
Oh god well here is the response I really canāt be bothered today anymore, Iām tired. I was thinking of going on Sunday, I have things to do on Sunday but I might be able to be free by this time of the evening. What would you all do?
I really canāt be bothered today anymore, Iām tired. I was thinking of going on Sunday, I have things to do on Sunday but I might be able to be free by this time of the evening. What would you all do?
He has me angryOh god well here is the response
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