Is he putting the same care and concern towards your mental health? Obviously I know the answer but you should ask yourself the same before engaging with him againBut he does suffer with mental health issues and I think something like this could really affect him so of course I am worried about him now.
He's a text book narcissist, he only cares about himself and his own needs and I'm very aware of this.Is he putting the same care and concern towards your mental health? Obviously I know the answer but you should ask yourself the same before engaging with him again
good morningSome of the dates of the pics matched the period the narc was with her .
The day she contacted me to say she was seeing the narc and she felt I should know about it , there was a pic of her and her ex taken the day before and others just a couple of weeks later.
The narc messaged me last week about some business we have to sort out (finances) and he mentioned he was still with her but things were rocky.
Oh i know all this, he knows how to play me so well. In my head I think they are happy but he has said they are going through a rocky patch so obviously not that happy.
He's horrible, I know that. But I think it was so mean for her to contact me to tell me all about her and the narc when she knew she was hurting me (she went into way too much detail) yet she had a boyfriend all along. I just knew there was something not right about her. I remember telling the narc that I wouldn't be there this time when it ended but I also warned him that she was going to hurt him. He laughed and said no one could ever do that to him
Sorry, I know I sound like a ridiculous teenager.
Yeah I've really enjoyed it thanks you. I like persia and I've definitely had some light bulb moments@Thank(space)you how have you found the NN week?
I hope I can make the live this morning! I'm looking forward to the masterclass tomorrow though & I ordered her book!Yeah I've really enjoyed it thanks you. I like persia and I've definitely had some light bulb moments
I personally thinkI met this really gorgeous guy last night through my friend. Age appropriate, looked like a model, all of that good stuff! But we all went out after, and coincidentally I saw a couple of guy friends that I said hello to, and he completely freaked out and got quite jealous and possessive, kept kissing me in the club in front of people (which annoys me) and trying to pull me away from people?! It was a bit bizarre, like as a female we know what men can be like in the club (i.e. starey, etc) but I don’t think I was encouraging any of this? And he was so nice up until this point that I’m wondering whether to give it another shot? I don’t know if I’m lowering my standards though with this behaviour?
Sounds a bit odd but I’d give him another go. Why not have a date where booze isn’t involved and see how he is then. Maybe just go for lunch or something?I met this really gorgeous guy last night through my friend. Age appropriate, looked like a model, all of that good stuff! But we all went out after, and coincidentally I saw a couple of guy friends that I said hello to, and he completely freaked out and got quite jealous and possessive, kept kissing me in the club in front of people (which annoys me) and trying to pull me away from people?! It was a bit bizarre, like as a female we know what men can be like in the club (i.e. starey, etc) but I don’t think I was encouraging any of this? And he was so nice up until this point that I’m wondering whether to give it another shot? I don’t know if I’m lowering my standards though with this behaviour?
I think that is a blatant and very strong red flag. If I was you I'd keep away from him.I met this really gorgeous guy last night through my friend. Age appropriate, looked like a model, all of that good stuff! But we all went out after, and coincidentally I saw a couple of guy friends that I said hello to, and he completely freaked out and got quite jealous and possessive, kept kissing me in the club in front of people (which annoys me) and trying to pull me away from people?! It was a bit bizarre, like as a female we know what men can be like in the club (i.e. starey, etc) but I don’t think I was encouraging any of this? And he was so nice up until this point that I’m wondering whether to give it another shot? I don’t know if I’m lowering my standards though with this behaviour?
I think this is a symptom of the metoo movement - many male friends and colleagues of mine are terrified to offend a woman they want to flirt with in case it is unwanted or there is any backlash/punishment and I also noticed that they try to get consent.Does anyone else get the total ick when a guy says something like “you look lovely, hope that’s ok to say?” Like how do I answer? You’ve already said it. Where are your balls
Am I too harsh?
How do you meet all these men?I met this really gorgeous guy last night through my friend. Age appropriate, looked like a model, all of that good stuff! But we all went out after, and coincidentally I saw a couple of guy friends that I said hello to, and he completely freaked out and got quite jealous and possessive, kept kissing me in the club in front of people (which annoys me) and trying to pull me away from people?! It was a bit bizarre, like as a female we know what men can be like in the club (i.e. starey, etc) but I don’t think I was encouraging any of this? And he was so nice up until this point that I’m wondering whether to give it another shot? I don’t know if I’m lowering my standards though with this behaviour?
Yeah I thought this… I’m also not the best on booze so I’m hoping that’s it? I don’t know, wish he wasn’t so pretty haha. Thanks for the suggestionSounds a bit odd but I’d give him another go. Why not have a date where booze isn’t involved and see how he is then. Maybe just go for lunch or something?
Yeah completely the first time! We were part of a wider group but I liked him from the get go and the feeling was mutual but I was a little shocked at how he was with me that early on?! Now I’m wondering if I was behaving provocatively lol.How do you meet all these men?was last night the first time you met him? His behaviour was very inappropriate
I am feeling much better today, last night was a slip up. I'll discuss it with my therapist next week. Thanks to everyone that took the time to help me, you all definitely prevented from spiralling
I just want to say that you could have been wandering around offering hand jobs in the car park and still a man you have just met has absolutely no right to be jealous, possessive, lay his hands on you to physically remove you from situations he doesn’t like, nor kiss you in a weird ownership/marking his territory like a pissing dog manner.I was a little shocked at how he was with me that early on?! Now I’m wondering if I was behaving provocatively lol.
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