I think maybe I’m just quite blunt about it. I didn’t mind a bit of chit chat before the build up to making plans but if the chat is just dull activities and a few social niceties it would bore me and put me off.
I’d had about 3 dates with someone who started texting me every day telling me what he’d had for dinner and that he needed to wash his shirts. I just said his chat was dry AF and he’d need to improve it or not to bother getting back in touch.
That may seem a bit harsh but we’d had sexual contact by this point and his interest in arranging another date didn’t seem to be there but he had time to tell me about household chores! I didn’t know if I was getting the slow fade (even though he texted daily) or if he was trying to bore me into ending it. He never replied to that message and I wasn’t bothered
If there is something you find interesting about this man then it’s worth giving him a gentle nudge. If he’s already lost you then just end it.
*Of course he was in touch again when he was drunk or when he had the hangover horn saying he’d been dreaming about me, that he’d been thinking about me often, he’d made a mistake etc.
![Face with rolling eyes :rolling_eyes: 🙄](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f644.png)
I’m sure he’s still haunting Tinder and the like.