I would say she probably feels jealous of you and very insecure. As hard as it is, stop trusting her. If you feel comfortable to do so, call her out on it privately.
I would say she probably feels jealous of you and very insecure. As hard as it is, stop trusting her. If you feel comfortable to do so, call her out on it privately.Is there anything worse then snakey friends?!
I've mentioned before that I like someone at work. I told one of my friends/colleagues (who I'm very close too) ages ago and all of a sudden she's making a beeline for him.
She's the type of person to put on one of those fake personas when around guys and to be quite frank it's really pissing me off!
Walked into a room today where she's stood talking to him batting her eye lashes at him. She noticed me and carried on doing so. Feel shit about it all now
Ew, how old is she? 17? No, sorry, even teenagers have more respect for their friends than this gal.Is there anything worse then snakey friends?!
I've mentioned before that I like someone at work. I told one of my friends/colleagues (who I'm very close too) ages ago and all of a sudden she's making a beeline for him.
She's the type of person to put on one of those fake personas when around guys and to be quite frank it's really pissing me off!
Walked into a room today where she's stood talking to him batting her eye lashes at him. She noticed me and carried on doing so. Feel shit about it all now
I'm nothing special so I don't see why she would be jealous of me 🥲I would say she probably feels jealous of you and very insecure. As hard as it is, stop trusting her. If you feel comfortable to do so, call her out on it privately.
She's 24 and I'm 30.. weirdly months ago when I first met him I had a dream that we were at work and he asked her out in front of me and she agreedEw, how old is she? 17? No, sorry, even teenagers have more respect for their friends than this gal.
I'm sorry. I second the above advice, stop trusting her. I would ignore her existence outside of the confines of working together from now on. Polite but uninterested.
I'm actually reading this with tears in my eyes because this is me tooI’m lonely. I think that’s why I want a partner. I did so much stuff on my own when I was married. We barely interacted. We separated over 4 years ago. I want someone to hang out with, do stuff with, have my back, I really miss affection (so much) and I want sex again!
However, I think it’s excruciating obvious that I need to have therapy and not look for a partner right now, but I’m still lonely. How do I feel less lonely? I have a few lovely friends but actually no single friends.Finances are very tight too. What options would be good for me?
This is a genuine question btw. I think what you said was very accurate. Don’t tell me to love myself and be my own partner. I can go to the cinema, theatre and restaurant on my own without a problem. I just want someone to go with now. Someone to watch a tv show with. Do you see what I mean? Companionship and the physical relationship. I’ve done marriage and kids.
Hard lesson to learn loving yourself!! I’m sure there are plenty of things you special at don’t put yourself downI'm nothing special so I don't see why she would be jealous of me 🥲
No but I was tempted to download Bumble again. Although I don't particularly want to meet anyone longterm, I miss the buzz of chatting to someone new and the excitement of a first date.Anyone got any grand plans this weekend dating wise?!
ok well the 1st isnt too far awayNo but I was tempted to download Bumble again. Although I don't particularly want to meet anyone longterm, I miss the buzz of chatting to someone new and the excitement of a first date.
I'm going to hold off until the 1st of Nov
I would tell her you're going on a date with someone who’s knocked you off your feet and laugh at her.Is there anything worse then snakey friends?!
I've mentioned before that I like someone at work. I told one of my friends/colleagues (who I'm very close too) ages ago and all of a sudden she's making a beeline for him.
She's the type of person to put on one of those fake personas when around guys and to be quite frank it's really pissing me off!
Walked into a room today where she's stood talking to him batting her eye lashes at him. She noticed me and carried on doing so. Feel shit about it all now
I’d say there are things you can do that are low cost if you want to spend time with more people and possibly grow your circle of friends.I’m lonely. I think that’s why I want a partner. I did so much stuff on my own when I was married. We barely interacted. We separated over 4 years ago. I want someone to hang out with, do stuff with, have my back, I really miss affection (so much) and I want sex again!
However, I think it’s excruciating obvious that I need to have therapy and not look for a partner right now, but I’m still lonely. How do I feel less lonely? I have a few lovely friends but actually no single friends.Finances are very tight too. What options would be good for me?
This is a genuine question btw. I think what you said was very accurate. Don’t tell me to love myself and be my own partner. I can go to the cinema, theatre and restaurant on my own without a problem. I just want someone to go with now. Someone to watch a tv show with. Do you see what I mean? Companionship and the physical relationship. I’ve done marriage and kids.
I'm planning on asking my guy if he wants to go for a hike on SundayAnyone got any grand plans this weekend dating wise?!
I hate bumble. Hate talking first!Arggghh so I give in and downloaded Bumble again.
Waste of time. Not one potential match. There was one hot guy who was in an open marriage
That sounds lovely! I love a good hike, especially with a guy.I'm planning on asking my guy if he wants to go for a hike on Sunday
Off for a day trip to a different city tomorrow for an explore and dinnerAnyone got any grand plans this weekend dating wise?!
You've answered your own question there. Take the pressure off yourself and yes I harp on about taking time to discover you but its honestly the best thing we can all do.I hate bumble. Hate talking first!
I am considering downloading tinder again but I don't want anything besides chatting (no time and intend to move away next year) so I don't know if it's worth it
Thank you for the reply but it really isn’t that deep. I don’t need time to discover me cause I already know me and am quite selfish in that respect. There is no pressure cause I don’t care either way. I don’t want a relationship, validation, company or anything like that. Sometimes i just like re-join for fun. I just don’t know if can be arsed and usually will for 3 days then delete it when I cba to keep up a convo againYou've answered your own question there. Take the pressure off yourself and yes I harp on about taking time to discover you but its honestly the best thing we can all do.
Hell more women need to be selfish. We are like wired to put others first at our detriment so I'm all for the selfish times lol yeah if you can't be bothered then don't waste energy on it. Put that into something else. For me I'm going to the seaside this weekend - I know it won't be warm but I have the urge to just feel the sea air and sand/hear the sea and have some childhood fun in the arcades!Thank you for the reply but it really isn’t that deep. I don’t need time to discover me cause I already know me and am quite selfish in that respect. There is no pressure cause I don’t care either way. I don’t want a relationship, validation, company or anything like that. Sometimes i just like re-join for fun. I just don’t know if can be arsed and usually will for 3 days then delete it when I cba to keep up a convo again
Yeah I think women are taught that they are somehow damaged and broken if they don’t have a partner. I have many friends who can’t be without relationships and I have really learned from that. I enjoy my own company too muchHell more women need to be selfish. We are like wired to put others first at our detriment so I'm all for the selfish times lol yeah if you can't be bothered then don't waste energy on it. Put that into something else. For me I'm going to the seaside this weekend - I know it won't be warm but I have the urge to just feel the sea air and sand/hear the sea and have some childhood fun in the arcades!
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