I suppose it's like you want a friendship that grows? That's what I want I thinkThis sounds lovely. I’d think this was a ‘spark’. I suppose I mean sense of bond or connection?
This comfort is what I really like.
But I feel anxious most of the time so I suppose I would crave this.
Yes. This
Yes that’d be my ideal. A friendship that suddenly explodes into astonishing levels of passion and intimacy.I suppose it's like you want a friendship that grows? That's what I want I think
yeah 100%. just letting it grow naturally and maybe just analysing a person as a person or a friend instead of sizing them up for a relationshipHi
I’ve been told the brightest sparks burn out the quickest and to go for the slow burners but I think there needs to be an attraction there. There’s no harm in having a couple of dates to help you decide, you don’t need to know from the first date although I will usually know if it’s a firm no.
Maybe you're right. I guess for me, before him I thought of "spark" as butterflies in the stomach, intense physical attraction and passion, coming out of a first date and being like "I just met the man I want to marry". The intense stuff.This sounds lovely. I’d think this was a ‘spark’. I suppose I mean sense of bond or connection?
This comfort is what I really like.
But I feel anxious most of the time so I suppose I would crave this.
I like the way you are quite chilled out and laid back about dating. It’s quite refreshing to seeSo I hadn’t heard from fire fighter but look wasn’t too bothered as he is so quiet and was waiting for him to organise a second date… just went into bumble and he unmatched mealmost 5 days post date. Lol ok hun
Given his profession, perhaps there's no surprise things didn't catch aflame.So I hadn’t heard from fire fighter but look wasn’t too bothered as he is so quiet and was waiting for him to organise a second date… just went into bumble and he unmatched mealmost 5 days post date. Lol ok hun
That part makes me think he was waiting for you to ask him for a second dateSo I hadn’t heard from fire fighter but look wasn’t too bothered as he is so quiet and was waiting for him to organise a second date… just went into bumble and he unmatched mealmost 5 days post date. Lol ok hun
Haha thanks. Honestly I thought I would get more wrapped up in the whole thing but after my LTR and the way I was treated I am so happy to wait for the right guy who will meet my needs and knock my socks off. Even though the dating pool is pretty shallow I’m sure there is still plenty of fish!I like the way you are quite chilled out and laid back about dating. It’s quite refreshing to see
I actually laughed out loudGiven his profession, perhaps there's no surprise things didn't catch aflame.
Yes exactly what I thought as he said to me he LOVED that I planned the date and organised everything but relationships are equal so I wanted to see if he would plan a second date to come to the party and he clearly didn’t. The date wasn’t disastrous so I just think he was too shy to ask me out. His loss!That part makes me think he was waiting for you to ask him for a second dateIf you don’t like someone on a date you would unmatch much sooner.
Did you speak at all after the date?So I hadn’t heard from fire fighter but look wasn’t too bothered as he is so quiet and was waiting for him to organise a second date… just went into bumble and he unmatched mealmost 5 days post date. Lol ok hun
Congratulations! When is the second date?!So guys went on my first date last night and it was so nice, he has asked me out on a second one. We just went for a few drinks last night so next one will be a dinner date!!
He messaged me after and said he had a lovely night and thanked me for coming down and I messaged back and said I did as well and it was nice to meet him. As I fully planned the first date, time, place, everything, I just thought he might plan the second and as I thought he was a little quiet that it would show some effort, but I wasn’t fussed if it faded out (which it has). Was just a little predictable haha.Did you speak at all after the date?
I think he was possibly waiting for you to make the first move to communicate but I believe you will always make the effort for what you want.
Also, it’s lazy and you know he’d need instructions for the whole of your interaction/relationship. You’d have to tell him what you want for your birthday, what to organise etc etc.Congratulations! When is the second date?!
He messaged me after and said he had a lovely night and thanked me for coming down and I messaged back and said I did as well and it was nice to meet him. As I fully planned the first date, time, place, everything, I just thought he might plan the second and as I thought he was a little quiet that it would show some effort, but I wasn’t fussed if it faded out (which it has). Was just a little predictable haha.
Exactly and that’s how my ex sort of was. I had to plan things and tell him what I’d want for my birthday etc and I’m not doing it againAlso, it’s lazy and you know he’d need instructions for the whole of your interaction/relationship. You’d have to tell him what you want for your birthday, what to organise etc etc.
I like men with some initiative and get up and go.
His obviously got up and went.
I bet he’d be a disappointment in bed too. Probably asking you for reassurance all the time.
Anyway, when is our next date (with the other man)?
I picked up his text this morning and suggested dinner date but he hasn’t replied yet! Id probably say next week at some point hopefullyCongratulations! When is the second date?!
Yay! That’s so exciting, I’m so glad you had a great first date. We love a good first date story!I picked up his text this morning and suggested dinner date but he hasn’t replied yet! Id probably say next week at some point hopefully
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