That’s what I’m thinking the relationship seems so unhealthy and it’s quite sickening to see. A person shouldn’t be SO reliant on their partner, I’d feel absolutely rotten if my boyfriend had to do everything for me! She seems to love people doing things for her because oh pain woe is me I’m in pain but I find that ridiculous. She used to suffer with pain before too but even since getting a girlfriend she milks it to get a free personal assistant. It’s better and more balanced when we both do stuff for each other
100%.
I suffer from Fibromyalgia and at times it is debilitating to the point I can’t even get up from the couch or have the mental capacity to feed myself properly because of the flare-up. It takes over my full mind and body.
That being said, a flare-up is not never-ending. There is an “end” to them and with Dani it seems to be a permanent thing. She would be better off seeing her GP or a rheumatologist, which she could afford privately I’m sure.
Seeing her lean so heavily on her partner is draining to watch. I cannot imagine being in a relationship with someone who, after a long day at their full-time job, has to come home and work more because I couldn’t be bothered to make dinner or tidy up or do ANYTHING except post on Instagram whinging about my pain. I couldn’t be sexually attracted to someone like that. I couldn’t
like someone like that!