If you're the person who said it first, it wasn't your post I meant, it was one after it was first revealed I meant. I completely understand why you, and many other people, have no sympathy for her but thats exactly why I do. That situation is so far from normal there's obviously something deeply wrong with her. Like I said (with spelling errors which I've just noticed) most of my sympathy is with her kid or kids, I'm not sure if she has more than one, because she should get help for them even if not for herself but I feel sorry for people with addictions, it makes me really sad and also really grateful that I'm not in that position.